I know I am one NEEDY 15 year old with neverending complaints but you know you love to help lol. I know she's 23 and she has her own life. Living large (as she appears to be) with all her success. She's reached her goal of being the successful black woman with a well paid job in the film industry and doing the work she loves. We just saw her today and we got home really late from in the Bronx Manhatten New York and she honestly looked great with her little, well not so little hindu necklace and her hoop earings and the stylish shades and cute jeans and jacket. You know whatever. And her job is great, she did a photo shoot today with some persons but her purse got stolen along with her ipod for the second time. That girl is too trustful. Blah de blah you get the picture. So after we took her out to get some real food you know Jamaican, Caribbean, Hatian, Cuban, REAL food that we used to eat back at home instead of the fanciness she eats everyday, we were talking to her and we dropped her off at her living area. But she acted really really strange, She didn't want us to come in or anything and she left really quickly. She didn't let my dad carry the bags for her which she knows he will do no matter what but she just snatched the stuff and scurried upstairs. And my dad came back saying how she acted and said she looked really "nervous" and there was this guy who had spiked hair and piercings all over who was just staring at her which shouldn't be unusual since this is New York. People walk around looking mad crazy everyday all day. But he said he really doesn't feel comfortable with her being there. I know my dad is an extremist but I have to agree with him. There are bars on the windows. There's a police station like right around the corner. She's working for all these Celebs, directors, producers and what not and she can't even find herself a decent apartment that AT LEAST has a living society and signs of life and humanity. If you see the place it's unbelievable. I'm not degrading her choices but I'm really worried about her. She doesn't go to church anymore which is a BIG DEAL especially for her. It's a dangerous thing when anybody in our family strays away like that. Because before she moved out and got that full out job working for Tim Burton she was hyped for God. She literally was like "I'm on fire for God whoop whoop party of here". She kept talking about all this stuff about making movies for His glory and such. I mean really she was so obsessed with Him she was a lunatic. But she was so much better this way. More trusting, move loving, more caring. Now she's practically shunned us. We keep saying "Hey when are you coming back to visit us, when are you coming to church, are you coming for my birthday, can you come for my show, can you come for my olympic game, etc etc" and it's always the same answer. "Sorry I'm working that day" 24 HOURS A DAY 7 DAYS A WEEK 365 DAYS A YEAR this woman is working. Unbelievable. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her! I really am but I miss her so much my little candy cane. And she's not telling me what's wrong. Her fiance is Australian and 2 years older than her and REALLY REALLY HOTT!! My dad wasn't too happy about having a son in law of the opposite race with his talk of "BROWN BABIES, GIVE ME BROWN BABIES" but he eventually got over it, thank God. And her fiance is on a business trip in Italy. I talked to him recently and he was soooo overhyped to hear about my sis and kept saying he can't way to get over here "I CAN'T WAIT TO GET BACK TO NEW YORK AND MARRY HER!" was the first thing he said when I called him. Not even hi. The dudes crazy like her. They make the perfect match lol. But he's great and I told him what's up with her and he didn't seem to happy about it at all so he's trying to cut his time there short. I don't know what might happen, he should stay more concentrated on his work because you know how those Italians are lol. But you know, whatever, I don't know what to say about my sister. I can't talk to her like I used to. I don't know what's wrong with her and what in the world she's hiding from me. We used to talk about everything and now she treats me like an outsider.
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My Sister
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Your sister works for Tim Burton???? Damn her!! The lucky whor... sorry.
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lol thanks. still doesn't help though. I don't know what's up with her. Really worried that something's wrong.
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well yeah I don't mind her developing this "new life" of her's, it's fine. I'm proud for her job and her fiance and what not but I don't like to be kept away from something that could possibly be hurting her. I just want to be sure she's ok and that nothing bad will happen to her but that can't happen if she's treating us like strangers.
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sigh, I hope you're right or I'm coming after you first lol jk. But thanks I'll try not to think too hard on it. Kind of hard though sine it's weird it's going to be on my mind all day. I'm going to see her today though. She's coming for mother's day with her fiance's brother.Oh and Kristal and Pink, her fiance is the exact replica of Eric Dane! He looks so much like him that people often mistake him for the man. Sexii! Look him up!!!
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Helmsman's right. You can't live your sister's life for her - that's her job. She has the right to make her own decisions. We should be ready to help others when they need it, and ready to leave them alone when our help would not be welcome.
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even if it means we could possibly be losing her? or risking her safety?
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Yes, even then. She's an independent adult woman, you have no rights over her.