me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years. We have been having sex for about 4 months. Hes my best friend and i tell him absolutely everything.i have never had an orgasm during sex or oral. i only have an orgasm if i masturbate. i feel horrible beacause i ALWAYS fake it everytime sex and oral. I like the feeling of the actual sex is fun and it makes me feel very close to him because i love him so much. he can last very long its just that after a while i get sore and i just want to stop and so i say that i did have an orgasm. it makes me dread sex because i lying to him everytime. what should i do? if i tell him the truth it will hurt him so much.
Lying to bf makes me not want sex
just like one time while you guys are having sex dont pretend to get an orgasm just like moan and stuff and dont say youve had an orgasm and if he askes you about it just be like well it didnt happen that time...better not to lie!
life is too short to be mad so just SMILE MORE, LAUGH LONGER, and LOVE DEEPER
Honesty is always the best. One of the key elements in a healthy relationship and sex life is complete honesty. If something goes feel right, you have to let him know. If there is something you want him to do more, let him know.
There is nothing wrong about complete truthfulness.
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my awsum advice 2 u:
1: b honest, tell him urve faked it cuz u wanted 2 please him so badly
2: NEVER fake it again. he will just get lazy, make him work 2 get u off so ur haveing a good time as well
3:reasure him that u love him ( cuz its always good 2 hear)
4: relax, orgasm is not THAT importat. ull get there through sex eventually when u learn 2 ahve fun.
5: go buy sum lube
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