All my life since I was a little girl, I've thought about the perfect guy for me. I knew he'd be respectful, kind, and funny. Well, I found him, but I have no atraction to him what so ever! He's so perfect, yet I have no feelings for him at all even though I think he likes me. What should I do? What's wrong with me?
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What's wrong?
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nothings wrong with you.he may seem perfect,but you just don't have thoes kind of feelings for him.thres nothing unusual about it.
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well you could think you wanted exactly those qualities but dont,or he may have other aspects of his personality you dont like so theres nothing wrong with you
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You can't force physical attraction just like you can't make it go away. I have been attracted to many people that I shouldn't have been, and the same for the other way around. It is just who you are and there isn't anything you can do. Don't force yourself, cause that would be stupid. You will sell yourself short if you go for this guy if you aren't attracted to him.Your 'guy' will come along soon enough.
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it come down 2 thisppl usually dont know whats best for themthe perfect guy for u is probably sumthing u wouldnt expect
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There isn't a logical reason to love someone. Heart's desires have nothing to do with reasons and logic. Finally, you don't fall in love under certain circumstances. You just talk with someone or just see him and it hits you like a thunderstrike :P