ok first off, it's ok to be natrually attrated to the other sex. But having sex, any sexual stuff like that would be considering that you CHOSE to do that. Besides, what do you mean by bi exactly? Have you ever french kissed a boy before? anything of the sort would of coures mean you bi,( not hug) and if you did do that, then that was your action. Your choice. You CHOSE to be bi.
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Do you think same sex relationship os ok?
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I think we are getting off topic. Im suprised you even took the liberty to post that. You do choose to be gay. read my posts. You were created in a world of decisions. Every decision you make makes an impact on your life. Read.
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well all i know is i never chose at any point
look a gay person..... you are straight cos u like women sexually they get you aroused, with most gay people they get aroused by men not women and they cant help it, im not making a big deal out of it if i did sorry im not in a good mood and u brang religeon into it which i can stand religeon (a really personal exprience is the reason why) I'm not gonna argue anymore due to there are alot of things on my mind now, if u wanna know why search my posts and topics. -
Cam i think it is time we all stop flaming me. It is, after all my opinion. Don't put up such a fight.
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Surprised i took the liberty to post???????? LOL whatever.ok, so am i getting this right, YOU say you chose to be gay, so thats how it is.........I should take the thoughts of some 13 year old as gospel yeah laffin thats sooooo funny! Don't be so patronising.........you could do with doing some READING of your own, like from people who actually ARE gay and what they say, since they would know slightly more than you would about what that actually means...........sigh
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flamer. wow you COULD win this argument. Like anywould would listen to a 13 year old. Yes you did take the liberty to post. Any person 18 or older could win against me. Deal with it
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win this argument????...........it isn't an argument, and there is no winning or losing, you are putting forward your position and thoughts on this, and others are doing the same, chill, no matter what people say think what you will based on facts etc.
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no they are putting their thoughts about Me. anyways im ending this argument. Don't speak of it again.
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actually no they arn't they are posting theier opinion, thats what this board is all about, just cos you post a certain point of view, don't expect people to just go with it, thats not the way it is.
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Okay I am awake for the day and ready to have fun...First off you said you were 13 years old, and now you're studying neurology? Make up your mind on how old you are and stop making thing up.As for the whole “your not born gay” crap, who in their right mind would choose to be gay? No one. Noone would want to live a life where you are ridiculed, bashed, and treated as less of a person. I never woke up one morning and said, “Hey I think I am going to be gay today, YAY”, lol Doesn’t work like that.And if you still don’t get my point... when did you choose to be straight? What day did you wake up and say “Yup, my sexual orientation is going to be straight.”. Like I said it doesn’t work like that. There is never a morning or day when you decide your sexual orientation, it’s something that’s already programmed into your genetics. Hence you are born being either homosexual or heterosexual.As to your whole religion idea. Sorry my god doesn’t send people to a life of damnation because they love someone. As I said before I am a Christian and I feel from the depth fo my soul that I am okay with god. If anything god frowns upon the people who are bashing us and treating us like second rate citizens. We ARE his people, we ARE his children and he loves us as much as he loves you, so what makes you so much more important than I? Nothing at all.One last thing about your religious defense, Jesus died for our sins as I am sure you have been told. It was also made sure that no sin was greater than any other sin. So lets play your card and say, hypothetically, being gay is a sin. This “sin” would be no greater than any other sin you commit. So there for you are not going to heaven any faster than I would be.Okay my rant is done for the day I hope. And really read what I have to say and understand it before you reply.
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Wow Thank You Ntro!! lol finally another person that knows you dont choose to be gay!
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Cam don't even think of running for help.Yes Jesus did die for our sins, but loving the same sex is a sin. ( loveing= sex ect.) . It IS NOT and i repeate NOT programmed in our genes to be gay.When you believe in god, you get saved by a priest and then baptized. When you are saved it means you aurtomatically go to heaven. But you have to ask forgiveness for your sins. And yes, i do study neurology, i want to be a nuerologist someday. Just because im 13 dosn't mean ii can't be smart. Don't underestimate the power of books .
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So yes, you do go to heaven faster ( or just plain going to heaven)if you are saved than a person who is not saved.
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ok this is getting annoying....
i am not running for help i am just happy that someone else who is gay explained to you that you do not choose to be gay, why the hell seriously would any want to tormented?.
but now you are carrying it on with arguing with a gay guy who has obviously had experience with this.
also with the smart bit. i have to disagree cos you are the one arguing with 2 people who have more knowledge about this subject than you do and more than you ever will, i also thought you were going to drop it?ok also do you have to keep preaching? not everyone believes in that or agree with the bible
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A typical 13-year-old response, and I don' mean that to be rude.First off I am not catholic so there for a priest would do nothing nor would I be baptized. Certainly doesn't make me any less "saved". I have been saved when I was young and again when I became an adult I gave the god above my heart and soul. So again you are no more a Christian than I am just because I am gay. Stop using your religion defense and use your own judgements.You do realized everything you have said about homosexuals is a judgement, correct? You do realize judging others is a sin, right? Therefor you are just as much a sinner as I am in your book. So that just goes to prove my point you are not better a Christian just because you are straight.Last thing I want to say to you is it’s okay to have your own opinion, I am not here trying to tell you you’re not allowed. But what I want people to do is open their minds and look at other resources that are available and stop using religion as their only source of information. Religion is not a bad thing, but when you are using religion as your only reference material when god has placed people on this earth to give more depth to life, it can seem pretty foolish.
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no one fucking chooses to be bi,gay,or straight!you can't choose what sex you're atracted to any more than you choose what food you like or dislike.and they proved guys are supposed to be attracted to guys scientificly?ok wheres your link?and religion is just a bunch of shit.
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woah ok now you guys are pissing me off. Dantek, Camwhatever guy John Wycliff and William Tyndale did not sacrifice their butts for NOTHING! So don't bring the whole crap about "men have error blah de blah de blah". I think they earned a little more respect than that. If they messed up one little word or punctuation they would destroy the entire thing and do it over again even if they were on the last book of the Bible. They went throug a whole process. There is a verse in the bible that says not to blot anything out of the bible or change anything, you will be judged. So please, there are tons of people way back when who sacrificed their lives so that people like Eddie, and guest, and I could have it. The martyrs crown is not something I'd want.Anyway... although I don't personally believe that you can be born gay I'm not going to argue there because many things have been proven wrong. Mutations have happened at birth. If a black or asian person or whatever is born that color and they're discriminated and bashed for a simple color then it's not their fault. So if gays are born a certain way and are bashed and discriminated against then it's not their fault.
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thank you. And the name is quest
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How can you even read the bible, its like more boring then watching ants trying to fly- they can't. Now if Shakespear(e) wrote it then it would be diffrent... You need to get out more...
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yes ants can fly, female ants hehe, and i read it because it is interesting to me.