Hey,I love to recieve oral sex (like any guy) but I've never been able to cum, which kinda annoys me and i tihnk puts even more pressure on the next time, because i want to and m last gf wanted me to but after 10 minutes she got tired and gave up (not that i blame her).We've since broken up, for my next gf id like to see if anybodys got any tips?
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Cum during oral
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My boyfriend and I had the same problem, I'd always just finish him with a handjob and I really felt bad about it because he'd feel all pressured and then not enjoy it as much. You know that softlips chapstick? They sell it in drugstores and stuff... It's got peppermint oil in it so it tingles when you put it on your lips. I happened to put some on before going down on my boyfriend and he said it felt amazing (he actually came from it). Apparently it's cold and tingly. Try it!
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It's actually pretty common for guys not to be able to get off from oral sex. I myself have never gotten off from oral sex. It comes down to you not having control over the tightness and the speed of the stimulation that you are used to having.I am not saying it'll never happen (you cuming from oral sex) but give it time. And don't get frustrated if it never happens either, just reassure your partner that it feels good and finish yourself off as they watch or assist in some other way.
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I would have to say that I rarely have that problem. I can easily spend 15 min to 30 min down on a woman. I find out what makes them cum then I do it over and over. As a female, you must find out what part of it he likes the best. Are you sucking too hard, not hard enouph, too fast, too slow, showing no enjoyment(acting bored), complaining. There are many factors in this just like a woman. You have to tell her what feels the best for you. Tell her no teeth. I have more trouble cumming from a handjob not much though, but I prefer oral anytime.
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**I disagree Ninja, teeth used lightly in the right place can be nice, apparenlty, i've never had a problem getting a guy to cum from a blowjob ** :grin:
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O.K. I knew it would cum to this. I meant not hard.
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ah, thanks guys, hopefully it goes better next time haha :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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My girlfriend has her 1st time with me, and it took her 7 trys to get me... My tips as the receiver, just relax and don't worry about it.. It'll come
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hell maybe the girl doesnt want you to cum in her mouth and was pleasantly supprised when you didnt.
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I disagree Ninja, teeth used lightly in the right place can be nice, apparenlty, i've never had a problem getting a guy to cum from a blowjob thats because your special and have great talents angel lolso shurrup bragging lol
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Ive have indeed been told im special, in a kinda "don't forget to take your medication" way sticks tongue out at Kev
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Try cliching your muscles from the waist down tightly...almost to the point of cramping.All an orgasm is a simultaneous relaxtion of muscles in your pelvic region...so by tightening the muscles yourself, you can make it faster...usually...plus it doesn't hurt if you can get your gf to moan while she does it.