obviously you're not getting it....your ideology of sticking with your bestfriend(s) is, in your words "humane" but all of your responses have been cynical to this point.....
furthermore, if advising someone to distant themselves from a best friend, who just so happens to make an ill choice in life, offends you. then an apology is deserved. so i do concede my sincerest apology for offending you
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...as soon as you're born, you start doing things that annoy other people. Thankfully most people are tolerant enough to deal with it.
ironic it is and i see that... but again, i empathize with how you have come to this belief.