if you lost it when you didnt want to technically you havent, its all a psycological thing. i was raped (hence the age) and it scared the crap out of me but i wasnt ready to give it up...
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How old were you when you lost your virginity?
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That's a matter of opinion. I view virginity as the physical condition.
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Like snm, I veiw it as a psychological thing. I mean, if you're a guy, no ones gonna be able to say "Hey, you're not a virgin!" just by looking at your penis, and in a woman's case, it might be a bit easier to tell, like, they got less tight (you can't really tell with the hymen, it could just randomly fall off). Well, back to the matter on hand: 14 yrs.
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I don't think women really, physically, get less tight usually, Sephiroth, unless perhaps you have an organ of unusual girth. It's more a psychological thing, that they no longer tense up after the initial nervousness of first time sex.
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what a good 'friend'. please tell me you pressed charges?
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I know I helped you some with your situation since I had been through it, but it now seems like you're almost proud of it...you're constantly bringing it up, and it's not really in a way to help people...why?
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I have to agree. I am a little concerned about your attitude about this. From what I can tell, it wasn't that long ago either.
My sister was raped when she was in college. She was passed out drunk so she can't really prove it. I don't think our parents know about it either. I do realize that there is a stigma on rape victims (which I feel is unwarranted), and some women don't feel comfortable going through the process of pressing charges, but they don't necessarily going around telling everyone about it either. You haven't exactly been anonymous on this site either.
I don't know if rapists get lenient sentencing in Canada like they sometimes do in the U.S. Once I did a search for registered sex offenders in my area and was shocked that there were five in my neighborhood.
Are you sure you're okay?
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I hope you can get help so you can deal with this. I don't think you'll have any trouble finding someone who can help you. I believe all universities have pretty good counceling for this.
Personally, I wouldn't be able to forgive somebody for doing that, regardless of how good friends I was with that person. I do think that anyone who does this once is likely to do it again. My ex-gf's ex-husband was recently tried for child molestation (he used to be a cop, of all things) although I believe he got a slap on the wrist. That really pisses me off. Perhaps it's a good thing she and I didn't get married because I think I would literally have killed that bastard since he still gets custody of his daughter (she wasn't the one he molested, by the way). -
Sorry it took so long to respond, but I lost this thread...It was not his own daughter that was molested. It was actually the young babysitter he was having sex with. I believe she was 14-15 at the time (he is 26). The age of consent in Arizona is 18, so they could have nailed him for several counts of statutory rape, but as far as I know, nothing really happened to the guy, which is a damn shame. The details have been sketchy, although I know that when he was arrested, they had him face down on the asphalt and had guns aimed at his head. For whatever reason though, he got a slap on the wrist and still gets custody of his daughter.
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i lost it at 18, ive been with the girl for about 6 mo.
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most of you people need to read this little book by rick jones called the stairway to hell
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I used to hang out with my brother and his friends out side our garage at night and talk and actually it started innocently. Well, at night the guys would all pee in the grass and I would watch. One night just this guy I had crush on (my brother's best friend) and I were talking and he got up to pee. He saw me staring and asked if I wanted to see it and I said yes. He walked over to me and asked me to touch it. So I reached out and touched him. He showed me how to hold it and asked me to stroke up and down and I did. He told me faster and I did and then you tensed and shot his sperm all over the alley. It soon escalated to several different boys individually, behind the garage, jerking them off with no one around. Sometimes letting them touch my pussy, and fingering me. I learned to have orgasms that way. It was quite a power rush that I could control all these guys let me tell you. I have to admit I love to see that white sperm shoot. Some guys dribble and some shot far. I think I always liked shooters.One day, the guy I had crush on, asked me to put his dick in my mouth. I was nervous at first, but did it, just kind of bobbed up and down, not knowing what to do. Before I could pull away, he shot his sperm in my mouth. I didn't know what to do with it, so I swallowed hard and kind of choked as it poured out of my mouth and down my chin. Soon we added that ritual to our fun behind the garage. Kind of got used to the taste and the feel of swallowing and I know he likes it. I had gotten good enough, that I could take him deep and swallow all his sperm, without choking or any sperm squirting out of my mouth.I had tried sucking several of the other guys, but I wouldn't let them cum in my mouth, saved that for my man. Didn't let any guy ride me yet because I wasn't ready for that.One time while this guy peed I stuck my hand out and felt his pee stream hit my hand that was weird...I eventually tried jerking 2 guys off at the same time, my boy friend and his best pal. That was kind of weird at first, but so cool. The first time I had both of the guys looking at me as I touched them, stroked them, and licked them. But the 4 hands all over me was the best tun-on I think. It made me orgasm so hard as their sperm shots went all over the alley. They would sit with their backs to the garage door, with their pants or shorts down around their ankles and their little dicks sticking straight up in the air and I would sit between them and jerk them off. Sometimes I would lean over and suck them off. But I never let the other guys fuck me, or cum in my mouth only my boy friend.A few times my boy friend would ask me not to swallow the sperm right away, but collect it up in my mouth then show the guys his load before you told me it was ok to swallow it. The guys would always let out small moans and drop hints that they sure wished they could try that sometime.I think the most guys I ever jerked off or sucked off during that summer at one time was 3 or 4 guys from the neighborhood. Each taking turns fingering me and getting their little dicks sucked or stroked. In that same vain I think the most guys I made orgasm in a single day but not all at the same time was about 7-10. That was not limited to the kids in my neighborhood but to some of the older guys in high school and college guys working painting during the summer in the area.
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I am a surviror too Well I was I guess 14 or 15 and my Uncle got married for a 3 rd time to my new Aunt Joan. She was pretty and older, not like the others he dated, mean and shribbled, she was old about 43 or 45 and liked to wear skirts and shorts. She has a nice ass, and could see her nipples because she didn’t wear a bra much.I used to help her around the house cuz they lived down the street from me. You see my family is all alcoholics and drank and partied all the time. So as a kid I saw a lot and had to clean up after parities and get everyone together pretty shitty life a s a kid trust me.Well I saw a lot as I say uncles and aunts fooling around and not just with their spouses. From a sex point of view I saw a lot. Even my parents having sex. There all were too drunk to know, and I used to sneak around rooms and basement and garage to peek of people getting sucked off, fingered and fucking. But, it also turned me on too. I watched as my mom sucked my dad and others, and swallowed and getting fucked by 2 guys, my uncle and dad, and dad fucking my aunts and others. Sometime in same room sometimes just in little hiding spaces throughout the house.Well my new aunt was cute and I use sneak and watch her, she was the only female I ever seen masturbate, and she always would as she watched others before joining them.Well one night my aunt caught me watching her masturbate as I a jerking off in the hallway. I was about to run when she waved for me to come all way in to the room. There were several people licking and sucking each other, none of my family members thank god. I thought I was going to pass out my head begin to swim. I had never been that close to anyone naked before let alone seeing pussy and cock disappearing and wet. My aunt still had her legs spread and leaned back again the bed frame and went back to rubbing her nearly hairless pussy. She was smiling at me reassuring me but a little twinkle in her eyes. I walked forward my knees shaking I couldn’t take my eyes of her pussy with her wet shiny fingers working her clit and lips and moving inside. My pants were only half way pulled up and my hard cock was sticking out over top the edge of my underwear. She smiled at me and looked at my cock and patted the bed next to her as to sit down.I sat down next to here on the bed with my back to the headboard as well, she leaned over and suggested that I take off my shorts and underwear and then join her on the bed. All the time she never took her eyes off my cock and never stopped rubbing her pussy.I quickly hopped out of bed pulled down my pant and underwear and hoped back in bed. I was really nervous, here I was just starting puberty and a boy’s body, next to this very much grown woman who had seen and been with real men.Well any ways, I stared at the people around me and at her; she was rubbing her pussy and then reached over and stroked my cock. I almost came on the spot. I never had such a soft, warm hand touch me before. She stroked and look me in the eyes, very drunk by the way. Then she took her hand off my cock and grabbed my hand and pulled it down to her pussy. Oh my god I nearly died. I think I stopped breathing at that point. I played with and fumbled more like it with her pussy lips, and then try to insert my finger. She moved a little bit as I went into too fast and hurt her, She told me to slow down and go smoothly. She asked if I had ever down anything with a girl and I turned red and said no, but always wanted to. She asked if I jerk off a lot and spy on people and I had to answer yes again. Then she said starting tonight I wouldn’t have to worry about jerking off anymore.She had me move around between her legs and look at her pussy. She showed me her pussy lips and clit. She showed my how to rub them and how to insert a finger into a girls pussy. She taught me a lot that night all about how to make a woman have an orgasm. She had me watch others in the room and learn as well. Then after making me take her off several times she told me it was my turn to get a treat. I was a great teenage boy and that she wanted to welcome me into manhood. I deserved it she said.With that she had me switch with her and I lied back again the headboard and she got between my legs. I had some pubic hair but not any on my legs or stomach and felt like I was with my mom, but so excited.She began to stroke my dick and rub around my balls and ass, licked my bass and actually licked right into my butt-hole. It felt like nothing I could have dreamed of. So nice, she kept me near the brink so many times not letting me cum. She then began to suck my dick a little at a time then more and all way down and since I was not all that hung kept you mouth and lips flat again my stomach. Just rubbing my ass with her hands and my dick with her tongue moving around her mouth. She then did this thing with her throat kind of like swallowing water and it just did so much for me brought me right t the edge of cumming. She then stopped that and stuck out her tongue and scooped up my balls and licked them while my cock was in her mouth and down throat. I just couldn’t take it and I began to shoot. I thought she would kill me for shooting her mouth, but she helped me in place and just sucked with her throat. I came so much felt like what they now call multiple orgasm. Just felt like I couldn’t stop contracting to shoot out sperm. Oh god it was so cool.Well after that night we did more and more
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Malcum, AfraidToAsk is not a place for fictional sex stories.
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I was 15 to a guy that was 18 or19. The next day he found out his supposed ex gf was pregnant with his kids. I don't regret losing it just wish it was with a better guy.
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14-i dont' regret it b/c it was w/ sumone i have been with for a very very long time, scince i was like 12 and i love him very very much. i didn't just have sex w/ him, i made love to him.
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Wow, Malcum, you must have grown up in San Francisco to have so many guy gays around who liked going behind your garage and having thier dicks played with by a "White male, 5'10" short brown hair & eyes." Dumbf**k.
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albeitmyself: Im glad reason and logic prevailed in your decision to actually live your life and not tangle it up in things that would only keep you from enjoying your time on Earth to the fullest. Frankly, getting married right out highschool or 'saving yourself' for 'the one' has always seemed crazy to me. And I really admire your willingness to forgive and move on. Ive held grudges over things which wouldnt even register on the radar of most people, if ya know what I mean... "Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.""Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don’t be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own." - Mary Schmich
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i jsut wanted to point out that for the girls that are still virgins, i applaud u. it takes alot of guts to stay a virgin. i still am but i dont regret a thing. to many girls r losin it at young ages jsut because everyone says they have to. stay one until your married. i know alot of guys who would respect that, including me