My Girl Friend Is BI!

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**In my opinion being Bi, does not mean you have to have a relationship with someone of both sexes at the same time. If she was your girlfriend, then she shouldn't have been messing around with ANYONE be them male or female, just cos she is bi, doesn't mean that being with a woman when she is in a relationship with you isn't wrong, cos it is, cheating is cheating no matter what sex you cheat with. **

exactly! if shes with a chick when shes sposta b ur gf, its cheating, same as with a guy. u dont need 2 dumb her if shes not doin anything tho....and it depends on the guy, i asked sum mate if their gf was with a chick, is it cheating? sum said yes it is, sum said hell no its not...depends on the guy

I completely agree Angel.

I called her up and told her that she has one more chance. I told her if she does something behind my back like that again that I would have to dump her. She said that she was bi and that I should deal with it, and then dumped me :frowning: Kinda sucks cuz i have been goin out with her for a while now...we had a great relationship. Its almost like she changed from being the best and nicest girl ever to a lying uncareing one overnight.

I'm sorry.

That sucks man. At least you found out fairly quickly instead of getting more drawn into the relationship.

Oh and to Angel... My girl is bi-curious and I've given her one rule: It's okay as long as I'm there to watch and get to say when it goes too far.Nothing as yet though, going to pay a stripper to give her a lapdance one day though

See this is why i don't get it. Ok would you watch while she was 'trying' out another man? No! So why is being with another woman acceptable, except that its a mans fantasty i guess.......for me, if you kiss anyone else while in a relationship its not right, end of story................what happens if your GF enjoys sex with the woman more than with you, whether you are there watching or not, is that gonna change it........hope everything goes ok for you all.

In reply to: Oh and to Angel... My girl is bi-curious and I've given her one rule: It's okay as long as I'm there to watch and get to say when it goes too far. I haven't set down any rules for my girl yet. That sounds like a great one though. haha. Oh, and we're going to the strip club sometime this month. FUN!

If I was you, I would be seriously offended by the act of your girlfriend. Not because she was kissing a girl. It could have been a boy and i would have reacted the same way. You need to talk to her and see what's going on. Was she just experimenting? Personally, I'd wonder if she was cheating on me. By the way, did you like seeing that? Or were you totally blown out by fury? Edit: Nevermind.. >_<

Ah damn...that sucks...well dude, it might be better off this way. You'll find someone else. Someone better for you, perhaps.
Make sure that one isn't bi.

What is the problem with her being bi?

i don't think the problem was that she is bi,but rather that she did this behind his back.

My girl is bi and when we were on break she had me fuck her and one of her good friends. She's actually more lesbo than Bi Im just a lucky guy that holds the key to her heart.

My girlfriend says she kisses her best friend, but only for fun she aint bi or lesbian. And she says she wouldnt do it with anyone else (except me of course)I've never really understood why some girls do that though lol

hey kid go with the flow i go out with 2 girls and they both live with me and yes they are bisexual threesome tell ya the truth but even if she is bi that doesn't mean shes seeing anyone like the others say so dont worry about it youl be fine anyway theres nothing wrong with a threesome :-)

Hell with that girl buddy, your better off without her. Tell her so next time you see her. Its okay for her to be bi, but when you rnag and she refused to talk to you, that was so dman gay. Dont give girls like that the time of day. If they want talk to you about stuff like that I really cant see how the relationship can go anywhere. And then dumping YOU? Pah! What did she expect your reaction to be "oh wow my girl is bi I am so happy likee can i watch plz plz plz!!!11"? She cheated on you, she doesnt deserve shit from you. I would dump any girl immediately after discovering she had cheated on me, with anyone, guy or girl. Infact If she told me she was bi I would probably come to the conclusion that I wasnt going to keep the relationship going for too long.

In reply to: I called her up and told her that she has one more chance. I told her if she does something behind my back like that again that I would have to dump her. She said that she was bi and that I should deal with it, and then dumped me Kinda sucks cuz i have been goin out with her for a while now...we had a great relationship. Its almost like she changed from being the best and nicest girl ever to a lying uncareing one overnight. Just putting in my two cents:Your ultimatum sounds fine. If she cheats again, you're dumping her. Her telling you that she was bi and you'd have to deal with it was her just trying to cover herself caught cheating. I'm bi, that doesn't mean I go around making out with every female I know and then trying to convince my boyfriend that it's not cheating and he needs to "deal with it".I'm really sorry that happened to you, but just because she happend to be bi and be mean, don't close up to all bi girls forever, some of us are really great!