Is this a problem?

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This may have already been on this site, but im gonna ask this anyway..i have a friend who is VERY insecure about his size. hes white(dont mean to sound racist at all but i heard that different races have different "sizes" that are considered normal), 19 and hes about 5.2 inches when hard..he feels like something is wrong and he would really like to know if he should seek medical help, or just play the waiting game to see what happens. He started puberty when he was about 15 and he wants to know when/if he will be finished puberty and if his size is normal. This is a really big problem for him (mind the pun), and he would feel a lot more comfortable if he had some answers/advice from you guys..thanx!!! XOx

He's normal - only slightly under average, perfectly usable. At his age, it's unlikely that he'll grow much more if at all, but it's OK.

yah...hes really hoping that hes not finished puberty yet..doesnt it stop when a guy is like 21 or sumthing?

there is no set age that anyone,guy or girl, starts or end puberty

i thought there was...i dont know. i just feel so bad because hes so insecure about it. :S

Lots of guys feel very insecure about it, even guys who are bigger than average.

yeah, but he's like 2 inches when soft, or smaller, that's the bigger problem here. he doesn't thinik it's normal.

I know how he feels. However it is quite common and normal.

Does he know you're here asking questions for him? I think its cool but here's a suggestion. See if he'll come here and talk with us some - there are plenty of guys here who are just like him, size when flaccid very small, and insecure about penis size. It might be helpful if he chats with some of us about it guy to guy and we'd be glad to help him feel ok about it all.

i mentioned to him about this site and he told me to ask it for him. i believe he replied to some of these replies, but he just never said that is was him and not me . hes on here often so yeah, maybe i wil get him to make a forum...but he asked me to post one for him. so i did..but thanx for your concern anyway