How to last longer (for guys)
Is there a way for us guys to last longer? When making love to my g/f I get her really close and its just such a turn on, that I just can't hold it in... how do I hold on for that extrea few seconds? yes, seconds...
annnd, is there a way to change the way I taste too?
lasting a bit longer is an age old quest.
a little bit of booze to drink can help but too much and you'll be useless.
"long last" condoms which have a bit of novacane in them to numb the male's sensation help for some people. The same effect can be found by rubbing a little bit of Baby Oragel on the head.
As time goes on, you'll just find that sometimes you'll be able to last for ever and sometimes you won't. It's just nature.
Really hard to say, but I have to say you need to learn control. Try to loosen up and slow yourself down, don't focus so much on the orgasm because you will a little to happy and will cum fast. Best is just to relax and enjoy.
oh hon, you know I would never cause you any discomfort!
the "baby" oragel is very mild and almost identical to "maintain cream" so I'm lead to beleive
Are numbing agrents really good for you in the long run?
I mean like if you use it to often will you penis start to feel less?
Sorry just wondering because I have you used baby Oragel on my gums for a tooth ache and lost some feeling from prolonged use
hmm, I don't know about perminent loss of sensation. Frankly, I've never used oragel or maintain cream. It's just what I've read about.
I did use one of the long last condoms a few months ago (came in a viariety pack) and didn't like it.
I tried the condoms that "last longer'' and they stink, and don't really help much. ur right though, last night I lasted for what seemed like a long time, but still couldn't get her off. I think thats the problem, is I can last long, but only untill she gets really close and it just turns me on a hell of a lot and, I can't hold it anymore...
that's pretty normal though... your partners excitement adding to your own. There's no simple answer or "magic bullet".
You just need to be in tune with your partner and do what works best for both of you.
I've experienced the phenomina of regular simultaneous orgasm during intercourse with only 2 women. I've given my ex-wife more orgasms than she has hairs on her head but never once from intercourse.
Everyone's different so just be an attentive lover
I know it sounds cheesy but I think of really unsexy things when I'm really close. If that's not working just ease back for a second and let the feeling fade, then recommence!
I've had the issue before but have overcome it quite well. I'm always really turned on when my girlfriend comes. However I love to have her come as many times as possible, or as many times as she wants I think would be a better choice of words.
I started exercising my pubococcygeus muscle - it's the muscle you use to stop yourself urinating once you've already started. Once you've strengthened it and practiced a little, you can flex the muscle when close to orgasm to hold it off. It works quite well for me, though I do seem to use mental suppressions well too (just try to distract myself from the orgasm if only for a few seconds).
Implementing these helped a great deal, now I just seem to have it under control subconsciously, I don't even seemingly need to try.
The muscle is also called the PC muscle for short. Google it for more info on how to use the technique, and strenghten the muscle. Otherwise post back for more info.
Cheers and good luck.
Thanks SilentRain, I've been trying the PC exercises for a while now.
Now about my other question, is there a way to make my cum taste better?
one of my friend's boyfriend ate a lot of apples and she said it made his cum taste really sweet. So what it tastes like depends on what you eat. Theres a post around here somewhere that says what to avoid.
The start/stop method has worked wonders for me. Maybe a little too well.
I've already mastered the skill I can go for like 3 hours w/o nuttin' but if she wants it to be a quicky I can nut fast too.
silentrain,i've read that exercising the pc muscle isn't safe
According to the article, the problem is straining the muscle through overexercise.
i'm speaking of a particular muscle,thats the pubococcygeus muscle,i think its a sensitive one and we should'nt deal with it in a wrong way
i've seen some sites saying its safe excersing it and some say it isn't
so who is correct,thats what i wanna know
I've seen some that say that just exercising it according to the standard instructions does no good.
I don't know what the correct information is.
so do u think people who do these excersises are mislead?or did that guy in the site i mentioned did not follow the correct way in excersicing his pc muscle??
i'm really confused
I am equally confused. I don't know.
When I've wanted to fuck my gf really hard and be able to hold off I've taken a mouthfull of her hair and really tried to think of nothing but just what was in my mouth. I don't even know if she knew I was doing it; she was off in ecstasy.
Doesn't work all the time, course, but it helps when it's needed. If you thought about it carefully, you might be thinking, how can she not have noticed him munch on her hair? The answer is--when we fuck we usually don't look at each other. She's looking away and my chin's hooked over her shoulder.