Newbie to sex. hard to stay hard.

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Okay thanks a lot guys. I guess I will have to be patient.. get together a bit more frequent with my girl. Im seeing a doctor tommorow about something different. I'm gonna ask him/her about this too. thanks

There are a lot of (possible) answers to your problem, but they all come down to this. For the body to work properly, it must be healthy both physically and mentally. Some thoughts:1. Your penis becomes hard when it fills with blood. Thus it's important to keep your circulatory system in good condition. Proper diet and exercise can help tremendously. Get some fruits and vegetables into the house and eat them. Try to eat well balanced meals and stay away from the "junk" food. Regular exercise, including cardio-vascular, will develop your heart and help it to pump the blood necessary for your erection. If you can give up the smoking- both cigarettes and weed- that would also be a plus. You have an athletic body because you are young and we all start that way. Then we have to do the right things to maintain it. It really is a lot easier to develop good habits and start now than to try to repair damage when you are older.2. Try to develop "normal" sleep patterns. I guess I'm not understanding something about your sleep comments. Why can't you have some (good) food available in the house so you're not starving? Are you unable to work, and thus provide for yourself? Your body really works best when it's on some type of schedule of work, rest, diet and exercise.3.Now to the mental part. Yes, both anxiety and your depression could also play a part in your problem. The anxiety you can probably conquer yourself with the help of your girlfriend. Spend time kissing, cuddling, etc. (with or without clothes) but without thinking about penetrating her. Give her some oral to get her off and let her do you. Just enjoy each other's bodies. I think you'll eventually find that the rest will just happen.If you take charge of your life by proper diet and exercise, you'll begin to feel better about yourself and you may find that your depression eases. If not, you may choose to seek medical attention for help.Good luck!

I would say the weed did that you.

Did what? Who are you responding to? Never did weed in my whole life!

If you were answering the original poster -- I seriously doubt that that is the main issue.

Maybe he's gay?

lol fuck off but to be honest I have fantasies. But Im not attracted to guys/relationships/looks

when i start to lose full erection i find patting your penis on a womans vagina or try wanking your cock a bit or rub against the womans vagina with your penis , things like that.

its the blood rush that goes , you have to be very excited for sex

but seriously if you struggle everytime then maybe you need viagra or even may be gay

I've had this same problem, infact its prevented me losing my virginity.

I seriously doubt it means he is gay.

I asked a doctar about it and they said viagra was NOT a solution as even with viagra your head needs to be in order for your dick to function. I've been told I just have to not be nervous/stressed/depressed.

That sounds totally correct. Kopite1979's gay/viagra comment was totally silly.