TWO pregnancy dilemmas!

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I found out I was pregnant the end of April.. April 29th actually.After I was 9 days late for my period that month.Now, Heres the first problem, for me this is quite a biggie!The doctor told me I could be 2-3 weeks pregnant, OR 4-5 weeks pregnant. Only reason why he said the 4-5 weeks is because the pee test I had done (at the clinic) is usually 2 weeks off.Theres a problem being (at the time) 4-5 weeks pregnant (according to the last time I had my period). I had slept with one guy April 3rd, then another April 7th. The first guy was a one night stand thing, set up by my friend. The second guy is currently my boyfriend(was not at the time). And after the 7th I ONLY slept with the 2nd guy. Had sex with both guys without condoms, or any kind of birth control, and they did not pull outNow, Im HOPING that Im NOT pregnant by the first guy. I have no way of contacting him. and my boyfriend wont stop bringing it up when we talk about my pregnancy.Is there ANY way possible of knowing EXACTLY how far along I am?I understand seamen can last for a few days "all up in there" so Im really concerned it may be by the 1st guy.SECONDLY:I have the WORST "morning" sickness EVER!Im sick all day, puking, headache, body aches, stomach cramps. Name it, I have it. I've tried just taking some Rolaids and getting on with my day, but that doesnt work. Im usually stuck in bed, or hovering over the toilet all day. I eat when I can, whenever my stomach is up for food, and it will actually stay down.Is there any way to make this less severe? or to stop it all together? Im really tired of puking up nothing, or whatever mouthful of food I just had, or the cup of water I just drank.Its so bad I almost considered getting an abortion, which is the very last thing I could ever think of doing. it would just kill me.help?

First of all, kudoes to you for dismissing the abortion option.

You do have a problem with the paternity question and, unfortunately, it is one I can not answer with any authority. Hopefully others can if you just wait a little. Your comment that your boyfriend "won't stop bringing it up" is confusing to me. Is he looking for an out if the child is not his? Of course the paternity could be determined with blood tests, but I think that is usually done after birth.

The morning sickness usually fades after the 1st trimester. Have you discussed it with your doctor? You and your baby obviously need good nutrition to stay healthy. He or she can give you some tips to manage your morning sickness and/or medication to control it if necessary. You need to gain some weight during pregnancy, not lose it. If you're not able to retain food, you and your baby will suffer.

Hi Spiike, it isn't the time since sex that is the issue, but the time since ovulation, which only occurs once per period. The problem is that when ovulation occurs during the period is not always easy to determine. It may be that they can determine which period it started at, but it is not likely they can tell, without DNA tests, who is the father, of different guys you had sex with during that time.