My girlfriend and I have had sex about 20 times and I have only cummed twice. After about 25 minutes I get soft and have to stop. It always feels really good in the beginning but then after a couple minutes I could barely feel myself inside her so it doesn't even feel good anymore. It seems like as soon as she gets really wet it stops feeling good for me. Is this normal?
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Can't finish during sex
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Many guys are so used to masturbation that sex doesn't feel 'right' for ejaculation. If you refrain as much as possible from masturbating you should find that with more practice sex becomes more effective at getting you off.
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A good idea is to get her off before you start intercourse, so that you're free to come in the first few minuites while it's still feeling great for you and she wont mind as she's had her fun!
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i would feel the same way Kristal
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sex needs to be good for male and female if not then thats just inconsiderate mainly of the male because if he takes like three minutes as someone mentioned then surely thats no good for the female to enjoyas two of the ladies have already stated that 3 minutes would not pleasure them and they would probably have to pleasure themselves afterwards.you dont have to go hell for leather and have a quick in and out , sometimes its nice to take your time and both of you can enjoy sex (i need to reply to the person am talking to christ i always forget that)
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Well, like you say, we can only speak for ourselves and not all women; but personally speaking when my partner spends ages in foreplay and brings me to orgasm several times orally etc, it really wouldnt bother me too much if intercourse lasted only minuites after that!He's never been a three minuite man, but after I've been satisfied it really wouldnt bother me if he wanted to go for a quickie. Of course, like anything else in sex, if it gets repetitive it gets stale..
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it isn't the time it took to cum hon, for me it would be the feeling of him just 'getting it over with' that would bug me
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Yeah I get what everyone's saying, but as this guy says: "It always feels really good in the beginning but then after a couple minutes I could barely feel myself inside her so it doesn't even feel good anymore".So they've got to, at least some percentage of the time, having him coming while it's still pleasureable for him and therefore possible for him to do so. I mean, God love him, lads deserve their bit of pleasure too! So I think the best way around that is for him to make sure she's happy before intercourse on the occasions he's going to get there quicker than she'd like.I'm a bit spoiled in that department. A three minuite session would be a new one on me, but if I had to put up with the odd quickie he'd better fucking hope I was satisfied beforehand, ha ha.
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I get really wet, and sometimes he has to take it out and we have to do other stuff, or grab a towel LOL it might be an idea to do that, and then go back in (omg that sounds crude LOL)
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I have to do that too Angel. I hate that.
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i'd feel the same way here hunn..
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I've had the same thing happen to me with a past girlfriend. I can't really explain why, I never had that problem before or after with anyone else. I can tell you this. I was'nt 100% sure about the relationship and that may have been on my mind more than the sex resulting in this problem.
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Then again lisa at least we are enjoying it