well. about a week ago my girlfriend let me try to finger her and...well its the first girlfriend ive tried this to. but i cant get the hang of it...she has to tell me where to go....i was wondering if there is a secret to this that i could kno...or something that im not going right. i tried to 'rub that spot' with 3 fingers. but she tells me now that i only need to use one...idk lol but i rub it in like....circular motions....wut am i doing wrong. im gettin frusterated with myself.another thing. my gf tried to give me a hj and she just...idk she dont have the hang of it either. its both of our first times. so we are both frusterated that we cant do it to each other...but we want to try it atleast until we do it right just once lol. but we dont want to do it all the time.help me(us) out.....plz lol
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Fingering and HJ's
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fwhat your doing wrong is seeking outside advice.Your woman is telling you what to do, how to do it, where to go, how hard to rub, all of it.all girls are different, what does it for one may do nothing for another. Listen to her, do what she says, let her tell you and guide you.otherwise you could be there for hourse with soggy pruney fingers and nothing to show for it but a frustrated girl, who wont soon be liekly to let ya give it another go.as to the HJ, who knows better then you what gets you off?be vocal, tell her, give direction. Not a damned thing wrong with telling your partner what it is that feels good.Listen to her and her to you, and niether of you to us on the board.what the fuck would we know what you two like?
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The above advice really is the way to go, you two are mightnt know how to touch eachother, but you're both the experts when it comes to your own bodies. Show eachother, it's as simple as that. And have fun practicing!