ugh, this is such an uncomfortable topic for me i dont even know how to begin.so i've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months, and for the most part its been good, aside from one issue. it came out awhile back that i was "about average" in regards to my penis size, which appearantly seemed to be hinting towards the "small" side. at the same time she would turn around and tell me that it was perfect/big/any other complimenting traits. not only did this, for whatever reason, really mess with my self esteem, but it worries me that if it is a big enough deal to lie about, then this must be a legitimate issue. so i went with making jokes about me having a little penis, to hint to her i was aware she said it, however indirectly, but, she didnt really offer any comfort. overall i just dont know how to deal with this, im aware this shouldnt be this big of an issue, but it really bothers me. I feel very inadequate, and whenever we do anything intimate i feel like im being compared to people in her past. id just like some advice on how to handle this. what can i do to begin to get over it? is it an issue with me only, or should she be offering some comfort? this is really a brand new experience to me. ive been in an intimate relationship before, but it was both of our first, so im not used to having a standard for comparison, it just really makes me feel inadequate, and im worried its affecting my overall self esteem, not just sexually
You've just got to get over ur insecurity mate.In respect of sexual pleasure unless it is massivly smaller than average (like thumb size) then it doesn't make much differance.They come in different shapes and sizes, ive never looked and mine and worried too much about how it compares to the competition. Shes not with you for your dick shes with you because shes into YOU, sex is only a part of it after all!Noone cares about the issue other than you! Accept that, man up and get on with it!