Did you lose your virginity the way you wanted to?

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I regret my first time too. But what's done, is done.

gave mine to a long time gf, she gave me hers also.

I lost mine relatively recently- within the past 3 months (aged 19). I love the girl to death, and we're still going steady.No regret.

I did it with the first girl I knew was willing just to finally experience it. I was 21 and had panic attacks thinking I'd be a virgin forever. I stopped liking her soon after she got all clingy and stalky but I dont have any regrets because i just wanted to not feel all left out and weird when i was around other people who were talking about sex

. . . You sound like a jerk :scream_cat:

how's that make me a jerk? it's not like i used for sex, i just realized after a few weeks she was kinda crazy in the head and bailed.

Originally Posted By: Rad

Originally Posted By: white_lines

I've been doing GREAT!!!! Thanks for asking.
How about you?
It's good to hear that you've been doing well!

I've been doing great, too!

Keep in touch.

My bad bro I didn't mean to be a prick and ignore you. I been good though kinda forgot about this forum for a while until I needed it again.

How you been?

I couldve waited till I was like 25 until I had a serious boyfriend who loved me. But Im 18 and never had a boyfriend and I got tired of waiting. I liked this guy for about five months. We talked about it often. We were both drunk when it happened, and he doesnt remember that it happened. So theres a lot to regret. But I dont, because I cant take it back so theres no point in wasting energy in that. Id rather focus on the good parts like, it was good sex. Im glad it wasnt awkward, silent sex. Im glad I wasnt nervous, or body conscious, or it was only missionary. It was really open, natural comfortable, and kinky sex haha. So it is what it is.

I didn't lose it the way I thought I would. I was in a long term / loving realationship and all that. But the first time we did IT, it was wierd and awkward. I really wasn't crazy about doing it again lol But it got better from there.

i lost it to someone i love. but unfortunatly it wasw in his gramas basement and we used a baggy roflmao

feel like?? how the hell did it stay on?? :confused:

This is like the third of fourth time I've read of kids using a baggy on this forum meanwhile parents are having conniption fits if the word condom is even uttered in school. Do you think parents would be so adamantly dead set against the availability of condoms to their kids if they knew they were engaging is sex with Ziplock bags? Of course it's not their kid it's somebody else's....

Originally Posted By: OldFolksThis is like the third of fourth time I've read of kids using a baggy on this forum meanwhile parents are having conniption fits if the word condom is even uttered in school. Do you think parents would be so adamantly dead set against the availability of condoms to their kids if they knew they were engaging is sex with Ziplock bags? Of course it's not their kid it's somebody else's.... Amen!!Plus on another thought.. I could not image a bagging would feel good, on both sides!

Quote:My mind conjures up "scratchy"! Yup, same here! Plus I would think you wouldn't get much sensation either being that a baggy would be thicker than a condom.

Well....
I lost mine virginity when I was 15 to a major baseball player in the dug-out at Dodger Stadium many many many many years ago when he was showing me around the place. The place was closed and he had keys and he was giving me the grand tour..

He scored a home run that night and my life changed forever. Maybe that's why I love baseball so much...

Originally Posted By: RocWell....I lost mine virginity when I was 15 to a major baseball player in the dug-out at Dodger Stadium many many many many years ago OMG!!! You were a 15 year old boy in a major league dug-out at the time??? Since girls don't play in MLB, and considering my definition of what "losing your virginity" would mean for a guy...(And two picture come to mind. Were you "pitching" or "catching" at the time??)I'm shocked to think what may have happened in that dug-out!!!(But I'm guessing you really enjoyed it??? That's great!!)

I was just a kid and I loved baseball. I played baseball in school and I thought it was the best sport in the whole world The pro baseball player my sister was dating at the time, offered to take me to the Hallowed ground of Dodger Stadium and see everything. I saw everything alright. I got my first blow job and was fucked all in one night... I was afraid to tell anyone what happened. Not that glamorous.

Its odd dhow people view things. In your words - Not that glamorous. My thoughts - well I’m not going to say what I’m thinking (it’s not too nice) so I’ll say very much took advantage of. They tell me I’m not strong enough to see her and I just left you a PM about my dad flipping out when I told him.. Bla.. bla.. I’m trying to prove to myself their wrong So… I’m going to say this with out shedding a tear. I was 13 and we were looking at porn. I started asking questions about intercourse and she did more than just answer. She showed me and made me a monster. I started sneaking to her bed (after all asleep) and seeking her out when no one was around. After I turned 14 - at Ry’s party .. She turned mean. I would have had sex with her , I dk if I would have the others cus I’m shy but she could have sweet talked me into it. I would have done it willingly… they didn’t have to rape me. My parents still don’t know (unless they found out in court) but I dk if they know or not.. I thought about telling them but I dk if I ever will. i gues si;ll clear it up .. parents knwo what shit happend at the party nad after.. and soem before just not abotu my real first intercourse.

I'm really sorry man. How awful it must have been for you to have to carry all that inside and to have your childhood taken away from you like that.

You were taken advantage of

Quote:You were taken advantage of when i said ... taken advantage of i was meaning you were in my views. but then with my experence i guess i would. i forgot what else i was going to say.... i guess it might come back and if it don;t..... well then it dont. don;t be sorry you didn;t do it to me.