ohkayy.. so i am 16. i got my period for the first time about a year and a half ago. i have been dating someone for about 8 months or so. forgive me for being a little forward here.. we have messed around for a while now. i have given him head and handjobs. he has fingered me.. but he hasnt eatn me out yet. i stopped him a few times. i think its kinda gross.. but whatever. im not really concerned with that... we are both virgins and have decided we want to have sex. of course my best friend is totaly against it. but anyways. i really do want to have sex with him.. and its not that im afraid.. cause im really not.. its that im ashamed of my breasts. i know. ha.ha. i have had boobs since like 8th grade. but i dont really have nipples. and i really hate it. for the 8 months we have been dating i will not let him see my boobs because of my nipples. im afraid that he will think i am ?immature? i dont know. but it really bothers me. i wear a 34B bra.. so i have the actual boob part.. just no nipple. does ANYONE out there have ANYTHING they can say!? i need help.. and soon. because we want to have sex soon and i want everthing to be perfect.. but i dont wanna mess it up and feel like an ass wearing a bra. someone. anyone. help.!
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personally i would not worry about it. 8 months and he has not seen ur boobs and he has not broke up with u or anything.. so it sounds like he must rely like you so i would just go a head and show him ur boobs or have sex or do what u want to do cuz i really dont think he will care or think bad of you. i mean no one is perfect.. i kno i would not care if i was him. so basicly i think u should not let it bother u at all. hope this helps!
he is seriously not going to care. Seriously
yea, he really wont give a flying fiddlers fudge what they look like
If he really likes you, he won't care.
Have you explained to him why you don't want him to see your breasts? If not, you should start there.
Breasts come in so many different shapes and sizes there's really nothing to be conserned about if yours don't fit what you consider the norm.
Talk to him about it, show him and if he is a desent guy, he won't be bothered. IF he is bothered by it then I wouldn't consider him a desent guy, if he loves you..or likes you or what ever, he has to learn to love every part of you.
I know this probably feels like a big deal but, after you get it over and done with and see his reaction, you'll wonder what you were so worried about.
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just from my point of view I think two people who are considering having sex should feel comfortable with their partners touching their body in anyway. my first was very intimate and loving and hot and... i'll stop now, if not a bit painful, and i really don't regret it, but i guess some people my age do. i'm 16 and i had sex for the first time about 1.5 months ago. what i'm trying to say is just be sure you are really ready and that you are really very comfortable with your man. good luck!
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no niple as in a birth defect?
So I'm guessing you have inverted or just really small nipples. I can totally understand where you are coming from, as my girlfriend as inverted nipples. Although I wasn't her first sexual partner I was the first she had shown her breasts too. When I first saw them I admit it wasn't what I was expecting, but it really didnt matter to me. To me even if I didn't love her I would still find them attractive, and since I do love her that's even more reason to find them attractive.
If you really do trust this guy (which I hope you would after 8 months) then I wouldn't be concerned at all. If he does kick up a fuss about something as insignificant as that then he's not worth it (but I doubt that will happen).
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