First off I don't want to offend anyone who is gay or bi. I do not want to be gay or bi because of personal beliefs. My problem is this I am turned on my masculine guy bodies. I am 19. I get a hard on when i even think of some of my firends bodies because they are quite cut and ripped. I do not want to have these feeling and want to know if they will go away. I have had them for a few years now. I also catch myself wanting to compare their dicks with mine which is normal i guess. I just dont like getting turned on by their bodies. I have to admit i have jacked off to an image of a ripped kid in my mind and enjoyed it durring but dont feel good about it after. I do also check myself out in the mirror quite a bit-i know im not nearly as cut as i want to be so could it be that i like those that i want to look like? Please help - im confused
I thought this better posted here
So I like ripped/cut bodies-what does that mean
What have your relationships with women been like up till now? It would be difficult to discuss this with you without knowing that. Either way, take it easy, it's not the end of the world! Just be aware that, if you end up having sex with a woman or man, you should enjoy it and accept it for what it is.
I don't know that there is anything wrong with it at all. Except that your feeling that it is wrong. Everyone has many facets to their sexuality. Unless it is hurting someone there is nothing wrong with it.
Does it turn you on, to think that maybe your the guy with the ripped bod, making love to a girl? I close my eyes, and somethimes fanasize that I am the totally in shape gorgeous babe while I am with someone, and sometimes while I masterbate...but in my mind I am not "looking' at me, It is some gorgeous girl, and I am turned on by it.
Not gay at all....lol bit weird maybe.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel <br /><br />
Really, it sounds like your gay and you're denying it. Sexuality generally isn't a phase. There's no way to really tell. Are you also attracted to girls? When you think of girls, do you get a hardon? Just, when you're compltely flaccid, watch lesbian porn or a woman stripping/masturbating. If you get an errection (w/o thinking of guys) it's either just a phase or you're bi (bi is more likely).
And, I don;t think your dick can respond to wants or ambitions. "I wish I had that car.... <*~-Up-~*>" is an unheard of scenario for me.
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I think it's a bit fast out of the traps to be telling someone that they're gay because they find the physicality of their own gender arousing. Lots of people have thoughts like that, and it dosent make them all homosexual in the long run.
I think it's at the point that someone is having regular homosexual sex that they need to get honest with themselves, but I have discussed that at legnth in another recent thread so am not going to rehash it all over again here.
"I do not want to have these feeling and want to know if they will go away." --> Thats just dumb. Nobody can influence his/her sexual feelings. Really, this is something what you born with. You cant just wish it away!
"I think it's a bit fast out of the traps to be telling someone that they're gay because they find the physicality of their own gender arousing. Lots of people have thoughts like that, and it dosent make them all homosexual in the long run"
Well thats a relief, all this time I thought I was gay, but apparently I'm confused!!!!
I take comfort here
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Don't bore me with the rhetoric
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