ok heres my story. ive been goin out with this girl for bout 3-4 month now, and for a while now weve been masturbating each other nd fondling, but not all the way yet, were 17 but dont feel ready, but anyway, a while back we were on the phone having phone sex, and her EXTREEMLY over protective step farther heard our conversation and lets just say he wasnt best pleased. so she was grounded for a month, he rang my parents telling them what happned (thank god my parents are more down to earth, they just laffed at me and told me not to get caught next time). and now the month is up we intended to go out, but now the step farther is making her come home at 6 pm and is always making excuses to keep us apart. i feel really strongly for this girl but i jst cant get the message across to her parents about how much i feel for her. i dont know what to do, any1 have any ideas or is any1 in a similar position
How close is she to 18? Do you think her father will ever let go of her?
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. -- MLK
Without knowing her age it would be difficult to advise you what to do, but if she is close to eighteen I'd advise you to knock on the door and tell the step-father that you think the world of her (if you do!) and ask his permission to take her out. Hard I know, but he'll respect you for it.
both of us just truned 17 last month and yes i do think the world of her, but the step farther is really anoyed with me, he told me he dosent want me near his door. my gf mother is nice, i get on with her, but she says she carnt do owt, or more likely she wont try.