There is a girl at school that I would like to askt to the christmas dance. First off its the type where girls ask guys. I have given her time if she wanted to ask me but I dont know if she is going to ask. So I thought I would ask her. Is this alright? I dont know if its alright for a guy to ask a girl. This is the only dance of the year that the girls ask. Second I dont want to just go to the dance I would like to date her. How do I let her know this w/o being too blunt . Finally when should I ask her? I have 6 of 7 classes with her so its not that hard but where?. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!
How to ask her to the dance
I know her quite well. She is a good friend. I think I will just ask her tommorow if there is a chance. Its just that I am nervous I dont know if she thinks of me as just a nice guy or someting more. Thats what most girls think I am a gentlemen to them and they think I am not interested in girls. Thanks for the help.
We talking Sadie hawkins dance?
If so, then the entire point of it is that teh girls ask the guys.
No rules banning you from going if you ask the girl. but it does defeat the point of it all.
You might try dropping some hints, maybe a story about how youd like to go but noones asked you, see where it leads?
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
I will try that. I think I will just say do you have a date to the dance yet ( which I know she doesnt) , because I was hoping to go. Any suggestions I think that sounds kinda desparate.
Yes sady hawkins is what they are calling it. I didnt know if there were strict rules or anything. With the other dances is about70 percent guys asking girls and 30 percent girls asking guys. SO its not uncommon for people to sort of break code. But this dance is obviously different.lol. Thanks