Best of luck to you! Don't ruin life over a girl though...she won't respect that. But give it a shot, if it is meant to be. It will be.
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Fuck Retard
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thats something my mother would say
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Well it's true, one girl isn't worth rearranging your ilfe for
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i'm not rearranging my life it's just that i will be gone for 3 yrs in a new city and stuff but i don't want to leave her without telling her how i feel
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That is fair. And if your not too far away, you could still see her, and maybe the relationship will grow
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For the first year that I dated my fiance she lived about 45 minutes from me, thenmoved toa new apartment that was just over an hour away.I still saw her weekends, and atleast 2 or 3 times a week.All while working atleast 4 ten hour days, and regularly working 5 or 6 ten hour days with a few 7 ten hour days thrown in here and there.a half hour drive or even an hour is nto really all that big a deal in a relationship.Of course I much prefer the last few years where she has lived with me and I get to see her all the time.Not that Im disgreeing with ya pepesi, it just seemed a good place to inject my opinion and demostrate that a bit of distance, even while working full time and overtime, doesnt make it impossible to be in a relationship.
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lol, maybe I missed something...but I didn't see disagreement...your story validated my oppinion!!!
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Ehhhhhh...
mayhaps Im too intoxicated ?
I felt that since I replied to you, it would look like I was disagreeing ?
Or as stated maybe Im too far from 100% sober to be typing shit that anyone will read and I should shut up now and climb into my bed for a nap since I have to drive a truck inteh am to move my niece.
Its sorta a pain inthe ass to be the only one thats ever driven big trucks and buses, every one calls me to drive when they have something they are scared of driving a few hours in traffic. -
LMAO! Keep the intoxicated poetry commin'!
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Fuck it i going out with her on friday with some friends and i will just tell her how i feel and see what she says
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with some friendsBad idea.
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y bad idea
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Well, I don't know who's friends you're tlaking about:1) If it's her friends you're going with: She'll probably be talking to her friends the whole time, and you'll have a harder time to do anything with ehr2) If they're your friends: You'll most likely won't be yourself, since you'll be trying to macho and cool w/ your friends and won't be all romantic like you should bePlus you want to spend time with her yourself right? You wouldn't want a bunch of people around when you're trying to cop a feel, would you?
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no no it my friend and hers but our friends bf is coming with us
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Ok, so it's you + her + some girl and her bf?Now that I must say is a much better idea. I think we all know why.
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the only thing i still need to figure out is what i'm going to say to her
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One advice thoguh:Try to think about what you're going to say, but don't make an exact script. You'll just sonud like a robot. Just try to think about topics in general you'll talk about, and just let it flow when the date happens
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it's not a date it's just a few people going out for dinner and then back to her house to drink and watch movies
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That actually sounds like a double date. There is nothing wrong with admitting that it's a date.
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Yeah, dude, it's a date. Anyone could see that (even her!).A couple is going out to dinner with two friends who happen to be boy and girl? I think she already knows how you feel, and yuo know how she feels. Going on the date with her is the first step to knowing you like each other