okay, basically, theres 2 girls in my life right now...kind of...im in love with one of them. and im sure ive annoyed you all with hundreds of posts regarding her, but honestly i just want to forget this girl. all she wants to do is sleep with older guys. i just dont meet her standards. and i know, i should tell her, but believe me ive tried. i just keep holding out for the right time and it seems like that time is never gonna come. So fuck it im just gonna get over her. Its just whenever she tells me about the last guy she slept with, or something, it feels like ive been kicked in the balls. When she told me about her last intimate kiss with a guy i felt like crying, but no i had to smile and be all wow, sounds nice.Then theres this other girl. I dont feel the same about her, but shes very beautiful and likes me. She has a boyfriend but she needs 'time to think' but hes going to college next year so chances are shell end up with me. The irony is i used the 'i like you' speech i had planned for the other girl on her and it worked like a charm. I just dont know what to do. I shouldnt complain since shes so beautiful and actually likes me, but shes just not the one i want. Whats a surefire way to get over someone? Avoid them totally or confront them with your feelings? I dunno...just shed a little light on this problem pleasethx-max
Honestly, i just want to forget her
If you don't feel the sparks with the new girl, it's gonna be hard. However, you can always date her and have a good time. Once you see how wonderful she is, you will forget all about that other person. You will look back and say, "man, what was I smoking?!"
However, you shouldn't go after the current girl since she is still with her boyfriend! You need to let them break up first, then you can take your chances pursuing her. Going after a girl who's already in a relationship is wrong. And besides, if she cheats on him with you, what's gonna stop her from cheatin on you with someone else?
Just give them time... do things you like to get over the other girl, and when the other man is gone, take your chance with the new girl :smile: