hey well um, i was just wonderin if anyone else has this problem and how they get over it. if i see a girl and start liking her and things start gettin good and we start messin around and im iwth her more. i always seem to find something wrong with her. it can be the stupidest thing and it sticks in my head the entire time im with her and usualy end up ignoring them and breaking things loose. im only 16 and just lookin for some fun but i cant even do that because itll bother me so much
Always Somthing wrong
wrong with her???? like what? ........
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin<br />
You need to ask yourself why you have to find fault in them. Are you comparing them to someone you've put on a pedistal?
I would re-think why you're loooking for a girlfriend if all you want to do is find all the things wrong with them. Everyone has some things that are wrong with them. It's is what makes up unique. It's what makes working on a relationship fun. Learning about those people and learning how ytou can compliment each other.
He probably understands that. He wants to know why he keeps sabotaging his relationships.
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK
Well, maybe it's because you aren't actually in love with her and you just simply like her. If this is true, it's totally normal that you find these obstacles to start a relationship with her. Of course, you may be in love with someone else, and you find any other girls just interesting :P
On the other side, you shouldn't have great expectations from her, since it's quite impossible to find your perfect soulmate. You should find these things that bother you as a small challenge. After all, you're still too young and your likes/dislikes may alter in the future.
Never to surrender, never to retreat...<br />Give your last breath to defend it