im coming up on 16, but no i guess its not getting softer it just seems liek sometimes when im not trying and get a random erection its alot harder then when i try
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Erection question
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It's probably because you're trying and get anxious about it.I've mentioned that it's best if both of you are relaxed and are not really trying. It can also help to refrain from masturbating for a couple of days beforehand, if possible. Also the morning is better than the evening, if this is feasible.
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ok thanks, would it help when trying to penertrate to hold the bottom of the shaft to prevent it from not going straight in, also she says it will get harder after we start is this usually true.
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It can help to guide it in - it's especially helpful if she does that. Is that what you're thinking of? Or do you mean to keep it from bending?
Yes, usually the feeling once you're in and going at it helps. :smile:
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i mean to keep it from bending she already tried to guide it in
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Well that can help a bit, though if it's too soft in my experience it won't stay in when you move it.
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Thanks, idk its probably just tryng to rush it but i still worry that i have a problem and its driving me crazy
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Do your best to take a more relaxed attitude. It will come good in the end.
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Yeah its hard to get that off my mind..
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your only 16 what is the rush to have sex