Ok so a couple of days ago a group of girls gave me a dare, if I completed this dare they promised me each a kiss, I took the dare and passed the challenge like nothing. A few of the girls backed down, but one girl had the common courtasy to live up to her end of the bargain, so we made out. After that we ended up making out 2 more times, she seemed to get into it because she wasn't pulling away or anything. Well here's the thing, she has a boyfriend, and things have turned awkward. She seems a little shy around me now, and every once in awhile I'll catch her giving me a glance or smiling at me, however we havn't really spoken. What should I do?
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Made out, now what?
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Was there any drinking involved in this game?
If you were all sober then she sounds like a very promiscuous girl, which is not always a good thing, especially with her having a boyfriend. Honestly, I think that you should leave it to her. If you are interested, don't be afraid to show it, but don't make a move on her. If she is interested enough, she will end her relationship with her bf. If she doesn't, then you could find yourself in a very sticky situation.
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Sounds like she likes you in some way. Maybe she likes the idea of a secret guy on the side. Or maybe she really wants to be with you more than her boyfriend. If it were me, I would talk to her about it. I'd want to know what she really wants and where is this heading.
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Hmm I have her for an after school activity, so I have plenty of chances to talk to her. Ok so here's another problem, I'm a senior, shes a freshmen, that means I'm 18 and she's 14, not cool right? I keep saying that it would be alright as long as we are in school together, sense seniors dating freshmen is nothing new, but after I graduate that would be a different story. I'm not afraid to admit that she is attractive, I have been somewhat attracted to her sense We met. My friends are telling me to pursue it, but I think I'm just going to let things play out, and what happens, happens.
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wow. if she has a boyfriend it would probably be best if you back off before you get yourself in trouble. why can't people have the decency to do the right thing. that's just messed up I'm sorry. Just because she wants to cheat on her bf doesn't mean you have to help her. but you know that's just me, you do what you want to do.
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I'm not going to activily pursue her, but I'm going to continue talking to her and if things go somewhere well what can I say, I don't know the guy, and supposably he's cheated on her. I have to say this was probably just some crazy thing that will never happen again, I'm not getting my hopes up or anything, and I'm not setting out to steal her away.
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who cares if you "THINK" he cheated on her that's not right. sounds like SHE'S the cheater. fact is you're still pursuing her and that's not fair to him. but hey, it's up to you to be the bigger person. if not, there's this little thing humanity was cursed with called GUILT lol I'm not trying to scare you away or anything I'm just sayin =P
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Guilt? Whats that?
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you probably know that oh to well Mr. Bob!!
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No, I am not aware of this guilt, or any other sort of moral feelings. How about you sugar-tits?
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sugar tits? is that a candy? lol
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No, but they're sweet like candy!
