What happened?

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So i started talking to this guy and we ended up getting to be really good friends and he started telling some mutual friends that he was going to ask me out so he asked me to prom and we kept getting closer then one day he suddenly told me that he didnt want to go to prom with me so now all my plans are ruined and he wont talk to me at all. any ideas what could have happened?

well, give him some time, and see if he will tell you why. ask the mutual friends....

tried asking the friends but they pretty much dont want to talk to me either they just tell me that he doesnt want them to talk to me about any of it i even tried to talk to him and he walked off

I wonder if someone has been telling him bad things about you?

i dont know that could be possible its a small school and people love to start rumors... so does any one have any ideas what i should do about prom? i dont drive and all of my friends have made their plans now i only have two weeks. Does any one suggest that i try to confront him about what he did?

Confronting him would be a good idea. Stranding you just 2 weeks before the prom is a really shitty thing to do, so he better have a pretty good excuse!

i confronted him last night and all he said was that he was never set in stone about going with me... why would you ask someone if you werent sure that you wanted to go with that person?

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why would you ask someone if you werent sure that you wanted to go with that person?

Thats a good question, did you not ask him this?

i asked all he said was that he just wasnt possitive that he really wanted to go with me im starting to realize that the guy that i thought was completely awsome was nothing but a jerk

You know that is exactly what I was going to say. I went to my prom with a guy but some friends of mine went all together, a bunch of girls and you know what ? they seemed to have more fun then the ones that went with a partner !

a friend of mine and her date talked and they decided that they just werent right with each other so now me and that friend are goin together as friends wich was the plan in the beginning until i got a date so im finally excited about prom again

i really hope so i cant wait to go and show him that he cant ruin it for me and that i can have a great time without him

Good for you !!! Have a great time, enjoy and let us know how it went !

ok. prom is on the 14th so ill post here the next day and tell how it was. I cant wait!!!

Hope it goes well...And as a side note...I think someone that doesn't like you very much must have gone and told him all sorts of crap about you.Best thing I recommend doing is, get someone new, and rub it in his face. Coz if it wasn't someone who told him crap, maybe you were a bet? Maybe the whole lot off assholes thought, "let's see if I can fuck up her life?"Let us know how it went

Oh my goodness im so glad I didnt go with him I went with a friend and had a blast the funny thing was that his date hardly danced with him at all so he was kinda bored or alone some of the time actually it was kinda sad but he did go and dance with some other girls but I was glad that I didnt have a date cuz I got to dance w/ who i wanted when i wanted and it was amazing