When ever me and my boyfriend have sex, when he first inserts it in, it really hurts. Even if i'm wet or if we use K-Y jelly, he is rather large in size, but i was just wondering if this was normal? It hurts for a minute or so then it starts to feel good again, but when he first inserts the pain is pretty sharp. Is there anything i can do to stop it from hurting or should i see a doctor? Can anyone help me with this?
Pain During Sex!
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If he's large then it's going to hurt. Try going slower or have him loosen you up with his fingers first.
yeh i agree. i have the same problem with my boyfriend at the moment. get him to finger you before you have sex and you'll avoid that initial pain. also maybe consider masturbating and stretching it between the times where you actually have sex to prepare for it. and don't expect that it'll hurt every time he initially inserts. you'll start to tense up and it'll definately hurt more. hope it gets better for you
i have this with my boyfriend right now - he's got the widest girth of anyone i've ever been with. i said something to him about it so when we first start a sex session right before penatration he goes slowly, and doesn't go completely in the first thrust or two, helps stretch me out some before he gives me all of it.