Mutual masturbation - things to do/games/ideas?

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Originally Posted By: lo0t

ok maybe you people
mite be different
but i think that you cant really
call yourself striaght
if you jerk off a friend?
No, it's just YOU who's different. You may be suprised how many guys experiment but are straight.

Originally Posted By: lo0tok maybe you peoplemite be differentbut i think that you cant reallycall yourself striaghtif you jerk off a friend?So if my gay friend Chris fingers a woman, would that suddenly make him straight?

for the record...their not jerking eachother off, their jerking off together. and im pretty sure almost anyone who is comfortable with their sexuality would get aroused or have some fun jerking off with a buddy. i personally have thought about it, but never had the courage to try it.everyone is different...some of us just have more fun, or at least think about having more fun then others, depending on what gets you going of course =)

"... i think that you cant really call yourself striaght if you jerk off a friend?"Bullshit.Sexual orientation has to do with whether or not there is an emotional attraction. Experimentation at a young age is by no means uncommon. It has far less to do with sexual orientation than it does with sexual exploration.

MK07 you're absolutely right. We're jerking off together, not jerking each other off. It's all part of experimenting, and for the most part, just a different way to get off. Thanks everyone, keep the suggestions coming!

man i cant help throughing in my 2 cents. i think its wierd and cant get hard with a dude there but i got friends who have done the most times cumming in x ammount of times. they started with an hour then 2 then day then 2 days. they tried for a week but called it off due to chaffing (sp?) i posted this late at night so sry if it doesnt make since.

I get what you mean... They tried to see who could cum the most within a given time period. That's a good one, thanks

We now possibly have a girl who will be joining us the next time. Any ideas for that?

hmmm that would be interesting. very interesting. 2 guys together grosses me out no offense but 2 guys and a girl....kind of a turn on. if its not hands off see who can make her orgasm faster. what setting do you do this in? like 2 guys sitting on a couche watching porn on the tv or what?

Yeah it's basically just us sitting on the couch. It will be hands off as you're calling it - basically no touching of others.

i have no ideas for you most of the time im good with these types of things. be careful though to be ok if she looks more at u then a friend and vice versa and be ready to deal with her having a relation ship with one of you. the movie chasing amy (good movie) had pretty good words of advice in general for the who 3 some thing

hm, ok... any more?

o.0Well if its just you and your friend.Play chess.In order to move a piece you have to have an orgasm.With a girl involved.. try chinese checkers.

Originally Posted By: Nny
o.0
Well if its just you and your friend.
Play chess.
In order to move a piece you have to have an orgasm.
With a girl involved.. try chinese checkers.
Haha, that's a pretty good one. It's sounds funny, but I think that would be near impossible.

It was mostly a joke. You would have to have quite alot of determination to finish that game of chess.

No offence to you, since you claim to be straight.Butttt.... Mutual mesterbation can transform into alot of things, and can also not. From what I gather, you, Plan your meetings for "Mutual Masterbation"you sexually please yourselves together.So... To me that sounds like same sex-attracted experimentation.If the slight urge is there to maybe sexually please eachother, I say why not go for it. Why not see how much fun you and your friend can have together, pleasing eachother.It wouldnt make you gay, if anything, if your are heterosexual it would redefine your identifying with that label. And it would be good experimentation for figuring out your sexuality.Gay straight lesbian bisexual transgender... whatever, you dont just wake up one day and know what you are. It comes with personal experience,knowlage and feelings.Anyway... just my opinion

"Edited by Frog (08/11/07 03:27 AM)"Who the hell is Frog and how the hell did he edit QKjourneyforward's post?Just wondering.>>>"No offence to you, since you claim to be straight. Butttt.... Mutual mesterbation can transform into alot of things, and can also not. From what I gather, you, Plan your meetings for "Mutual Masterbation" you sexually please yourselves together. So... To me that sounds like same sex-attracted experimentation."By the way, I disagree. Many young boys engage in such activities of sexual exploration. That's generally what it is, just exploration. It is typically void of any kind of intimacy and has more to do with comfort in the familiar and what's available than with sexual preference. It is, more often than not, a stage of development that is quickly left behind when other avenues of sexual release are opened up.Telling someone that it makes them gay incorrectly and unnecessarily adds to the confusion they generally already feel at that stage of their ongoing sexual maturation.

Is there any point in having a different user name and display name?

He asked to have his name changed from frog. He hasn't posted in 2 years so I OK'd it.

All that we ended up doing was sharing a fleshlight from the opposite ends (which felt amazing by the way). We both enjoy our mutual masturbation sessions because we've both become comfortable enough with each other.I honestly don't think that an experimentation as this will justify someone as being gay. For me, I'm not turned on by other guys, but I am turned on by the act that we're doing. I like that I am getting off with someone else. It's not like I'm going to give him oral sex or something...