Today...CONFUSING!!

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i had sex for the first time... HOWEVER ... i used no protection...i KNOW im stupid.. but he just wouldnt wear anyhting, argh!anyway..thats not what this is about...so yeh, he came inside me, then we both got straight up as i had to get to college and he had to get to town, .... buuuut, when i got up i noticed like, a small pool of white fluid where i had been laying... i couldnt work out if it was me, or him... as he came inside of me, is it poosible that when i got up it all sort of..slipped out? lolthat sounds so ridiculous but i felt it come from in that hole... and it was when we finnished!agh, please help, just want to know if it could possibly be his 'stuff' or myne!and if it WAS his... could i still be at risk of getting pregnant!?thanks guys!dont know who i'd ask if you wasnt here =]xx

Yes it can definitely all leak out very quickly.Are you at risk?? Are you kidding me? Of course you are.. depending if/when you are ovulating.

Ohhh!thanks!uh... not sure when im ovulating... buuut, i will take the morning after pill tomorrow?just to be safe?or...hmm!

Yes, take that morning after pill to be on the safe side within 3 days.And to be even safer, stop having sex with a guy who isn't willing to wear a condom. It isn't worth it.

i know this thread shouldnt be about this :Quote:i had sex for the first time... HOWEVER ... i used no protection...i KNOW im stupid.. but he just wouldnt wear anyhting, argh!anyway..thats not what this is about...but hunn seriously, its not worth your time being with a guy who wont wear a condom, its your body, your life, and if he doesnt care enough to wear a condom, tell him where to go.

You could go as far as saying that he's 1 step below trying to ruin your life permenantly.

=/i know i shouldnt of... and trust me...im not going to do it again, my friend said the exact same thing to me...(although she said it with a smack to the back of my head hahahaaha...friends ay??)i dont know why he wouldnt wear a condom...he just said he doesnt like them, and they are uncomfortable! grr! ... ive tld him, in the future he either wears one, or no sex =]but he said no sex then he will find someone else who doesnt care!ARGH!

Quote:but he said no sex then he will find someone else who doesnt care!Consider yourself lucky. You have learned early what he thinks of you...just a sex partner. I suspect you're worth a lot more than that. He'll learn the hard way. Unfortunately some poor girl will too! But at least it won't be you.

I tell you this... this guy is going turn out to be a loser who will get a bunch of girls pregnant in his life and skip out on them. This loser is a small fry who needs to be thrown back into the sea. Heed my words. Turn your back on this guy and don't walk but run!!!

=] thank you guys!hes been a right jerk today...so thats us through!...he sad hed rather have another girl who doesnt care so much and will stop nagging him!im a bit gutted...buuuut...ive had a 'lucky escape' says my friend lol!and friends are more impotant =]just another question... for the girls lolwhen you first had sex...did it hurt inside ANNND outside?like when i pee, then wipe it hurts sooooooooo much! and im not doing it hard... real lightly...even sitting hurts!=[

Quote:dont know why he wouldnt wear a condom...he just said he doesnt like them, and they are uncomfortable! grr! ... ive tld him, in the future he either wears one, or no sex =]but he said no sex then he will find someone else who doesnt care!You need to find a guy that cares about YOU and not wut u got between ur legs.! there are guys like that.... we're not all biggies. ok.. i didn't see this > he sad hed rather have another girl who doesnt care so much and will stop nagging him!im a bit gutted... till after i replied to the other.. but it still applies even tho u 2 broke up (i HOPE that's wut u meant ...) let another poor girl worry with his selfish dumbness. as for ur other question.. i'm not a girl but my gf she said she hurt on the inside. it wouldnt; be right after it would hurt her a couople hours after and last a a while. when she told me it was the mornign after and she said she had woke up sore and it last a couple hours. honistly i didn't knwo wut to tell her. and i felt bad for hurting her. when i asked some one about it i was told it could be 1 of two things.. my size or we needed more lubs. the next time we used more lubs and she still got sore but not as bad. i told her to get some lub i was told to try and well she couldn't find any. i dk if she was sore or not the last time we had sex. she never said and i'm not going to ask her. sigh i think she knows it hurts my feelings or kick myself in the ass for doing that to her.

Originally Posted By: alliecatjust another question... for the girls lolwhen you first had sex...did it hurt inside ANNND outside?like when i pee, then wipe it hurts sooooooooo much! and im not doing it hard... real lightly...even sitting hurts!=[ That happens when you have sex too roughly. Next time, take it down a bit or use more lube and you should be okay. You should be fine within a couple of days and don't have sex until you feel better.

OMG hunn i am sooo glad hes gone!! seriously. what a JERK!!!NOBODY should be treated this way. i actually feel sick to my stomach thinking about this.if you ever need to talk to me about anything, please feel free to pm me