Is it just me?

alliecat

i hope this goes here!if not....move it guess =] lol!after i have done something sexually, be it jacking off a guy or letting him do things to me, or even masterbating...i alllllllways feel really bad after, and really dirty!like i allways think 'christ why did you do that' or 'why did i let him do that?'its not that im not ready (with the sex things) im 18 and all, but its just everytime something sexual comes up i think, 'why did you do it? its dirty' then i feel dirty!does naybody else do that or is it just me?its making me paranoid!x

James_Bond

Yes you are paranoid. Give it time, it will also go away with time!

damien

I agree with Helms, and pretty much disagree with everyone else.Guilt is not always a bad thing. There is a healthy guilt just as much as there is an unhealthy guilt. A healthy guilt is really worth stopping and paying attention to cause it might be telling you something. Maybe the OP is feeling guilty cause she's doing something that she knows goes against her core values or is not what she believes at heart is best for her.So maybe the thing to do is to take time when there's no pressure and you're not in any way horny to assess what you think is and is not acceptable sexual behavior. Then do your darndest to stick to your guns.Enough of this "any sex at any time with anyone is okay" bull.

Dantek

Quote: though you really should feel bad about pleasuring YOURSELF in private um you might wanna fix that Helms,unless you actually meant should feel bad...

alliecat

i was doing the sexual things with my bf...we've split up now...but id been with him for ages, but still felt like it...i though i was just weird, with the feeling really bad, as i asked him and friends if they felt bad after and all said no!maybe its just something i have to get over, or something i have to make myself realise isnt as bad as what i think!... i know i shouldnt feel that way after... but i do..