I want one so BAD!

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Ever seen Kyle Dunnigan's Stand Up?, fast forward to 1:45...

I’ve been doing some chatting with some friends form here…and I been doing a lot of thinking too. I’m NOT going to let a idiot like u run me off!! If I ever chose to leave it will not be cuz some ignorant idiot.Now after I said that. I’m going to say this…I just need to get this of f my chest... Vent, rant, whine, wutever u want to call it. I was ( and still am a little) upset over this. Maybe I'm too sensitive about that issue but I think I have a right to be overly upset about it. As a rape victim I don't find anything funny in making rape a joke (defiantly telling some one to do it.. even if it was a joke) it's not funny and it stings. I would like to say some things. I can take a joke.(this is clearly NOT a joke). plus It is hard to tell sometimes when it's just text and u don't know the person. BUT in no way ever will rape be a joke to me. This is something that I don't understand .. People here on this forum know this is being read by more than just the names we see. There are lurkers and anynomous reader (I know anoynoumus readers can only seecertain threads tho) but anyway ... I don't think I'm the only one thatdon't find these "jokes” funny. But it does worry me that maybe a rape victim will see and turn away and not get the help he/she needs. I can grantee u if u or someone close to u were ever raped ( and I hope that never happens) u would not ever joke about it again.Now I’m done with this thread…. I’ve said all I need too.

Originally Posted By: CR125I’m NOT going to let a idiot like u run me off!! If I ever chose to leave it will not be cuz some ignorant idiot.Listen, I understand you're upset about it, but you lose all credibility once you start getting personal and use verbal attacks. I never once (that I recall) made a personal attack towards you, or anyone else. That was uncalled for. If you feel the comment was in bad taste, fine - but calling someone an ignorant idiot - especially when you do not know them is unfounded.  Quote:Maybe I'm too sensitive about that issue but I think I have a right to be overly upset about it.I believe you might be too sensitive to the subject, but you also may have a reason to be. Which is your right, but you getting on here and ranting about it is not necessarily going to stop those anonymous readers from doing what they are going to do. You've expressed your opinion, and I have expressed mine, even gone back and repeatedly condemned rape. There are some things that I have read on this forums that I've been against, but I don't make a big deal out of it. People giving advice to 14 year olds on how to put on a condom, or how to create a circle jerk with their buddies. I don't find that appropriate for that particular age level; I also don't make a big deal out of it either. ...and the sad thing is, these people giving this advice are in no way kidding, and are serious like a heart attack.  Quote:I can grantee u if u or someone close to u were ever raped ( and I hope that never happens) u would not ever joke about it again.They have. I have a very close friend who, when she was at a very, VERY young age, was molested by her adult neighbor. I don't make direct comments to her in regards to her situation, but I also do not censor myself for anybody. We have a relationship that is fine, she jokes about my short comings and past experiences, and I don't take offense to any of them. You can't change the past, so why not just discuss the future? I respect your view, but again, making personal attacks is not the way to express yourself. You are wise and knowledgeable, there's no need to express yourself in that manner./end of my discussion on THAT particular topic.

well im just gonna jump in on this one... but to the op's original question, the answer is: just talk to her about it more.

and to the other who are talking about getting someone drunk and fucking her... he was just kidding. only a joke. calm down...

I think that was very well said Caleb...aside from the name calling. I hope people learn to be a little more sensitive to others feelings around here. I agree with a few others here....rape is just not funny. BMOC, honestly, would you have made a joke like that in front of your friend that was sexually abused.....honestly??

shes given it to me twice now.....pretty sweet i took ur guys' advice and just talked ot her abput it more thx dudes

I'm glad things worked out well. Good communication makes a big difference!

You mustn't forget about her. If you haven't you should probably return the favor.

Originally Posted By: top4me and my girl have bee ndating for 10 months now.....shes given me 3 hj's...and i fingered her....we makeout all the time and everything we are so relaxed around eachother its not even cool....we love eachother soo omuch its unbelievable...now i've always told her i wanted a bj and she says she will in due time...but i want one sooooo bad!lol...any ideas.....thx guys I want want too!

eat herthen shell get excited to get eatin alot and say ill eat u if u suck my cockhaha, it will probably work