im kinda big....187 pounds and im 5'7 with a body percent fat of 29. but my girlfriend keeps on saying im not. so im afraid that if we get sexually intimate and she actually realizes that im as chubby as i say i am she wont have any interest in me. so my main question is...does being fat affect sexual interest with most girls. please send me some ideas...i would greatly appreciate it.
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Being chubby...less pleasures
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Some great looking guys rely JUST on their sexy bodies; yet many become over-confident by the initial sexual interest by women and can be very cocky (pun intended) and lousy, self-centered lovers.The rest of us average joe's don't need to be super-sexy; you just have to know how to make love (instead of literally fucking to house-music and falling asleep right after, you know who you are) If you can kiss, tease, and most importantly; pleasure a woman the way she deserves, you'll have no problem with your extra weight.Personally, I'm 5'10 210 lbs (I've got the beer gut, lol) and my GF is a rather thin and very attractive woman; She's probably like yours in the fact she really doesn't care too much about having a bit of fat; I do well because I make love to my GF, I'm constantly reading her body language, teasing, passionately engaged in the act and the build-up. I give her great orgasm's because I'm a responsive, caring lover; any lack of physical attraction is easily erased with the passion and skill that I've worked many years to perfect (They still aren't, I'm always learning)As a side note; too many women still unfortunately think they're fat themselves when they're not, this works to your advantage (the whole 'throwing stones in glass houses' thing)
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Hawker is right on the money. In fact, he knew slightly too much for comfort..lol! To tell you the truth girls mainly only care about looks when they initially meet a person and thats just because they know nothing about you. But since you dont have that problem, dont worry. If you are confident with her when you become more sexual then it really wont matter. good luck
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Originally Posted By: fin tailgirls mainly only care about looks when they initially meet a person and thats just because they know nothing about you. But since you dont have that problem, dont worry. i agree with this fully. since shes obviously your girlfriend, and she loves you, your weight shouldnt matter. im kinda heavy for my age and everything too, (14 aout 145, 5'4") and almost none of its muscle, i got somewhat of a gut too, so my point is, if you love someone, they should accept you for WHO you are, not WHAT you look like. hope this helped dude! Mark
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Originally Posted By: Nick Fronkso my main question is...does being fat affect sexual interest with most girls.Nope, at least not the good ones. And it sounds like your girlfriend is one of them. If she says you're fine, then you're fine. Don't worry about it so much. Plus, Hawker hit the nail on the head with his post.
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i like chubby guys! lol, but really most girls really dont care much. if she loves you, she can look past a bit of chunk. but either way, you sound like you're just about at normal weigh, maybe a few pounds over, but thats good.
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Ive had sex with two guys. One really skinny & one really chubby.
Chubby guy waaaaaaaaaaay better.
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If being chubby really equates to less pleasure we would have a world of anarexics
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thnx for the feedback guys
