hey people, it aint all my fault, she just throws herself on me, and i aint gonna say no to shagging my girl friend am i?
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Me and my girl troubles
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you should be saying no, it's obvious you're not educated in the sex department
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i know enough, just cos i didnt wear protection doesnt mean i dont know i should. she prefers it without anyway. i came here for support and advice not for people wishing me dead
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No you don't know enough about sex, you're only 15 and she's 13. I hope you have thousands saved up for a child. Nobody is wishing you dead either.
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anybody wanna help me out over msn?
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Holy Christ, ok the wishing dead remark was WAY uncalled for... As far as what should and should not be done. You should NOT be having sex with ANYONE if you don't know what the hell is going to happen. Safe period? NO NO NO. Here's the deal. You say "am I supposed to say no to my girlfriend?" Yes that is exactly what you're supposed to say. Having the maturity to be sexually active isn't just a matter of age, mostly it's having the ability to over-ride your hormones and say NO to sex. Have the damn maturity to say no, and the respect for your girlfriend to know that she's not ready for the consequences of uneducated and unprotected sex..: theatre_actor :.
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Don't be so prudish if he wants to have and the girl dose then let then do i mean really i think i 13 your olds can think for themselves all though i may be a lil bias cuz I'm 14 and i hate to hear ppl say your to young to have sex if your think your ready then go for it as long as she agrees
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Nobody is prudish here. The problem is that you kids don't realize the life altering consequences of an "accident" at that age.
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where are the parents at?
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come on i don't think any one would want to get thier parrents involed in this that would be awful for both of them
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i think that flew right over your head
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But if the girl becomes pregnant the parents are very much going to become involved, Jammy_boy.
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Your both right but if they do tell there parents and it is illegal and the girls parrents press chrages then he is going to juvy or jail so thats why i say don't tell the parrents Meh I'm gone for the day it's geting late
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I never said for them to tell their parents, my response has nothing to do with that, you're missing the point, i'm basically asking where are the parents are in these CHILDRENS lives.
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I think, Jammy_Boy, that you saying, "lay off, if they like it then it's ok." Is way off the mark. And, the fact that you're only fourteen makes is a classic case of the blind leading the blind. Those of us that are older than you, we give this advice in a been there done that fashion. Do you think we come on here to ruin your fun? Sex is a big responsibility that needs to be taken very seriously. Much more seriously than a 13 year old is capable of. And i'm not being a prude. I'm not trying to be righteous, or moral. I'm merely saying be responsible.
.: theatre_actor :.
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This entire thread is unbelievable. Kids having sex at 15? 13? When I was 13, my best friend (at the time) lost her virginity. I disapproved of it then, and I still do now. Losing it at such a young age also downplayed its importance to her, so she kept having it. Always with boyfriends, never with random guys, but she had it. A lot. And guess what? She's now 18 and has had 2 abortions, has polycystic ovary syndrome, and can't have children. I'm surprised she hasn't contracted an STD. I no longer associate with her because I disagree with her actions and who she has become as a person, but in conclusion, 13 years old--even 15--is WAY too young to be having sex, especially if you wonder if it's "OK" to have sex without a condom. It's a huge responsibility that can have serious consequences, which is why I've waited so long to have it myself. I think you both need to seriously think about what you're doing before you cripple one or both of your lives.
And another thing: 13 and 15, I highly doubt you're going to be together forever, or even want to, especially if a child comes into the picture. If you know this little about sex, I highly doubt you know much about what you want in a partner. -
"has polycystic ovary syndrome" that's not a result of sex
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Virtually anybody can contract polycystic ovary syndrome. That wasn't really the point of the post.
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well why did you post it?
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The point of the post wasn't that she has polycystic ovary syndrome, the point of the post was that 13- and 15-year-olds shouldn't be having sex.