The past 2 times my guy and I have had sex I have been bleeding. It only last for a few minutes then stops. My guy is very well hung so is it possible he is hitting my cervix? We have only been having sex for a month now and prior to these past 2 times I havent been letting him all the "way in" because I have been scared of his size and what it might do to me. I had my last pap in June and there was sign of std's and everything looked good then. I am on the pill, a low dose and I am not due to get my period until next weekend. I plan on going to see the dr on Monday providing I can get in to see her but I came across this site in my research and was hoping you all could provide some insight. Thanks.
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Bleeding right after/during sex
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Hitting your cervix shouldn't cause bleeding.It's possible that it's because of his size. He may be being too rough and stretching your opening, causing you to make a tear in your genitalia. Since he's done so twice, I don't think it could be your hymen (though I might be wrong).Does he go in too fast that you are not lubricated enough or you don't use enough lube? Is he gentle when he penetrates you or rough?Another possibility is that you're nervous. You said you wouldn't let him in all the way, making you nervous, and thus, causing your body to tense up. That can also cause you major discomfort if he starts to penetrate. You must be as relaxed as possible.Having sex with a guy with a large size isn't impossible. But it takes a lot of lube and patience to make sure you don't get hurt.
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If he's hitting your cervix you'd probably notice - most women find that uncomfortable or painful.
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Well on Tuesday it was painful but this was the 1st time it was painful. I didnt say anything because I was enjoying it then afterwards, then the bleeding. Then Friday night the bleeding again. I told him we need to hold off til Monday when I go to the dr to find out what is going on. Hes not rough with me at all so thats not it..... Im just concerned because this has never happened and it has me worried.
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I didnt say anything because I was enjoying it then afterwards, then the bleeding.
That's a huge no-no. Pain is what tells you that there's something bad happening to your body. If you feel pain, you need to stop because you're going to make things much worse.You're having sex when your genitalia is swollen and bruised. You must wait longer than a day or two until you're completely healed. If you keep on having sex while your genitalia is in pain, you're going to make things much worse, which is why you're bleeding.
You need to take it easy. You're hurting yourself and asking for trouble.