Too much nerves = can't get erection, Solution?

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I have had many situations occuring just recently, where when it's the first time with a new woman, i can't get an erection. If I manage to get through the first time, I'm just fine every other time with that woman. But usually if it's a new woman, and we are about to have sex, I'm usually too nervous to get an erection. It almost feels like the nervousness kinda numbs my sex drive, and even though I could have the hottest woman on the planet naked in front of me, I'll be limp as a noodle. Is there a solution for this? This has happened like 4-5 recently and it's starting to get really frustrating, and it's worse everytime now, because ontop of being nervous to begin with, now I am nervous about not being able to preform. If anybody has a solution for me, let me know. thanks

Relax? Besides that iunno stick with one person. Or maybe your gay but iunno

:/ i dont think hes gay because hes having that sorta problem. to the o.p just relax. be yourself. have lots of foreplay =) dont think of it being a task. and try not to be anxious about it. if its gonna happen its gonna happen

thx ashley. No, im definately not gay. And I normally am exremely passionate. I just wish I wasn't so worried b4 the act. I think more than anything, I'm just afraid of making a mistake.

you wont make a mistake. and even if you do, who cares =) if she cares about you then you can both laugh it off. and if she gets pissed, she wasnt worth your time. just relax and be yourself. and your welcome.

i feel better already, ur the best ashley

aww thanks. that made me smile. which is something ive been finding hard to do lately.

Only thing I can add is if you are both of age, have a couple drinks before hand to help relax you. A nice bottle of wine to help things get heated is always fun You and I are similar in the department that if we get too nervous Mr.Happy just kind of lays there lol. I find a little alcohol helps me relax.

Yea thx ntroducing. Actually I do find I am nore relaxed those moments I am drinking and it possibly could be easier for me. You and Ashley have been very helpful and I really appreciate it. I was a bit reluctant to share this problem, but I'm really glad I did and I will definately be back. 2 thumbs up

glad to have helped =)

Glad to help