My boyfriend told me he wasn't sexually attracted to me.My boyfriend is an athlete.. he's in fantastic shape.. I on the other hand could lose a good 25 lbs. He told me sometimes when we're having sex that I remind him of his mother.. because of the way my body is. This hurt me so bad.We have had an almost none existant sex life for a couple months.Its bad.
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Im depressed
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Well that sucks.. Personally I like some meat on my woman.
Unfortunately, chances are that you will not achieve his "standards" in the near term, nor is he going to change his opinion. I don't know what to tell you except the long term outlook is not favorable in my opinion.
So to heck with him.
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That's unbelievably harsh, I'm sorry. Get rid of him if he's willing to hurt you like that Whatever you do, don't change for the jerk. If you're not happy with yourself then seek to change it, but don't attempt to please someone who's that horrible to you.
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I have seen pictures of you, and you are gorgeous! I think it's time you got a new boyfriend.
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sad thing is our two year anniversary is on wednesday.. which makes me not want to do it.
I know it will be done.. it needs to be.
He said this "Doesn't it matter that I'm willing to give up sex for awhile because I love you so much?? That I love you more than I love having sex"
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me? I have no clue... because Im on weightwatchers and am losing weight.
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I told him that he isnt my ideal man either.. i told that I picture myself being with someone romantic and kind and giving and loving and outgoing.. and he told me he could probably be those things it i wasnt like this.
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you're sweet.
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oh my god... hon.. seriously, you are absolutely GORGEOUS. your boyfriend, putting it bluntly, is an asshole. You can do so much better. I would never be able to stay in a relationship with a guy after him telling me he isnt attracted to me sexually. wow. thats so harsh. i am sooo self conscious, and i know you are too. so being with a guy who isnt supportive of you, doesn't deserve you, AT all. so yeah.. FUCK HIM.
message me on msn if you need me xx
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omg.. what a jerk. serouislyy if hes goingto say stuff like that just because your notin fantastic shape like him than find someoneelse.. from what i've heard most guys like meat on girls bones..
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What a d-bag! Here's what I'd do: (keep in mind, I'm pretty twisted and I find this hilarious) Walk up to him, start kissing him, caressing him, heatin' things up, if you will. Then, right before things start coming off (or where ever you feel comfortable) say, "Now (insert name), you didn't finish your peas at dinner, so no sex for you! Now, you march right up to your room and think about what you've done!" Then, as sexy as you can, walk away and say, "To damn bad too, I was gonna try something new..." Believe me, the idea of a guy missing out on something new in the bedroom is more crushing, to me, than missing 'fun time' altogether...Plain and simple: Ditch him, you're beautiful, and he's either too ignorant to realize this, or maybe he's too swayed by the popular culture of America.
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If I was dating him and he said that to me, we'd be so done. He sounds like he treats you like crap, so you should treat him like crap. He just doesn't sound like he's worth your time.