Is this pathetic

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I'm 22 and my penis is only 4" hard I have only been with 3 girls and not many have seen it but it seem really small

...and?Nothing you can do but accept what's given to you.

I guess just like to know what I'm working with and if I can do anything

Since you're 22, chances are, you may be done with puberty. I can't give you advice as a man, but as a woman, I can tell you that many don't care about huge dicks. They are not as great as people say. As long you know how to use it and be intimate, you'll be just fine.

Try not to think of it as some kind of competition. Otherwise, you'll never enjoy sex. I hope in time you'll get over your insecurities.

Originally Posted By: Virtual StarTry not to think of it as some kind of competition. Otherwise, you'll never enjoy sex. I hope in time you'll get over your insecurities.Agreed. No other men are going to be around, so what does it matter. It's up to you to use it well. Doesn't matter the size if you use it well. I read a study somewhere that vaginal intercourse only lasts an average of 7-10 minutes anyway. If you're REALLY worried about it, just make the foreplay time a bit more generous.

It's a little below average, although there's been others on here in twenties that are similar size.http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/ubbthr...true#Post249912

When you say "below Average" you have to realize that the reason there's an "Average" is because there's an equal proportion above and below the average. For every person above average, will be someone below average. So don't get all worried about it. There are a lot of below average people, they just don't admit it. However, you don't see very many posts about it being a problem, do you?That's because it isn't. It's a natural occurrence. Don't worry about it too much

Yeah. I don't even worry about that sort of thing anymore."It's not the size, it's how you use it!"

You are fine my friend. I had this problem a few months back. Im about 6.5 hard now if i push all the way in, but my girth was my problem. Its probably 4.0-4.3 depending on how hard i am. You dont have to be a pornstar to pleasure a women if you pay attention to her needs and treat her right.I was so worried about my penis before i had sex. Now i have sex or make love to my girlfriend 2-4 times a day 4-6 days a week and i have great sex. Im not a "big" guy but i know what im doing with it. Theres a reason my girlfriend wants to make love to me so much.You can do alot with your penis, your best bet is get in a steady relationship, find a girl and make love to her. If your hooking up with random girls chances are their just looking for a huge penis, well maybe not but alot of women especially younger think they need to have sex with king cock to have an orgasm.Find a girl that wants you not your penis. Pay attention to what she likes and make good love to her and you should be fine. If your just worrying about your penis you will never enjoy sex. In my experience its not size its how you use it. If you make use of what you have you will be fine. You just have to accept your penis and learn to use it.