So you've been with this girl for what? nearly 3 weeks?And you're now having unprotected sex and considering fathering a child with her?The state of the human race these days really makes me despair.I know a girl who has had 3 unwanted pregnancies and her boyfriend left her a couple of months ago and now she's literally pleading with him to take her back...but he is already with someone else....she's not even 20 yet.
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I Don't Know What To Do
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But she isn't pregnant so I don't see why you're so effected? You can worry about that if the situation arises. For now, if you use protection and you use it correctly, the chances of it happening are slim. Don't cause yourself to worry.
And if you ask me, you're not in any situation to refuse advice from your ex. You're lucky she even bothers, regardless of the past.
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maybe this will make it easier for people to understand your problem:a girl thinks she is pregnant, she and her boyfriend talk about it and he says he will leave her if she dosnt get an abortion, she says she wont so he leaves her. she then finds out that she was not pregnant after all, but now she knows if she were to get pregnant then he would leave her. should she get back with the guy?its slimier because you know something about the person you didn't know before, and that thing you know could hypothetically cause you to leave your girlfriend if the situation happend. should you stay with someone who, in a hypothetical situation, you would break up with? is that your question?
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No It's the other way around. I would've left her if she would've gotten pregnant and then gotten an abortion with out telling me she was pregnant. I don't know how I would feel towards a person if a life I helped create would be destroyed without my knowledge. The child should have had a chance to live it's life. Although I am in no condition to provide for a child I still would have felt a responsibility to it. The extremely strange thing is I am still pro choice. Take from that what you will but I still stand by it.
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I know that is true and I am still reeling in pain from that, but the main reason I guess why I am no longer with the girl I was dating recently is because of her life style. She was a hard core party girl, she would go drinking and stay out late with her friends till five in the morning. I'm just not that kind of guy. Although, I did like her alot that was just not my scene.
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I hope you will find someone soon, just hang in there, the pain will wear off soon.
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Thank you that sincerely helps a lot and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I only hope that when I do find that person I will not make the mistakes I made in the past and try to live a life that is both healthy and productive.