Last night, actually for the past two weeks, I have seen this dude I had a one night thing with back in february around our birthdays...we did not actually hook up, hook up, but I spent the night at their house and partied with them that night. i made out with him that's all. he said he was a goody goody and i was being a goody goody, too, so i don't think he was mad that i did not let him get with me or anything.And, after that night in february, he was being a douche bag in hanging out.I never had a problem with his friends, in fact, I think his friends are cooler than him, buutt thing is...every time we go to the same hang out spot, for someone who ignored my calls a few months back when I asked to hang out again after that night, he would now recently always stare at me the entire night as though he wants me to go over there and talk to him.it was so painfully obvious yesterday that my friend was like, those three guys keep staring at me all the time.i hadn't seen him since the one night thing back in february, but these past two or three weeks, we've been going to the same hang out spot again, and i really want to go talk to his friends if i see them again, but i don't know what to do with him because i hate him.what do you think i should do if i see them again?have you ever seen ur one night hook up again, if so did ignore or still talk to them?
Gotta love one-night hook-ups
i did she was my best freinds sis but i still liked her but we were pretty much the same as we were before hope this helps
ive seen a couple around once in a while actually. but this reminds me of this one girl i met out one night. we spent the night together, but didnt have sex, just making out n stuff. it was like 4 am and we were still out and i ended up crashing at her place. we got along really well and had breakfast together in the morning and then said goodbye. i waited a while but never got a call from her, which was a suprise cos i thought we definitely clicked.
i saw her around a few times, at the club where we met and at my work. id say hi and shed just say hi and then walk away. i thought she was a total bitch for being so rude when all i was trying to do was be friendly even though shed never called me.
i saw her out again about 8 months after we met and aided by alcohol, i totally confronted her about it. it turned out that she was thinking the same thing about me. i thought she had my number and she thought i had hers. it was a really weird mix up. but after that night we ended up going out for 6 months, falling "in love" and all that wonderful stuff. we broke up about a month ago. we still talk almost everyday. its hard, we both love eachother a lot, but being together just doesnt seem to work. though its just too difficult to let go.
so yeah, maybe going up to the guy is worth a try. i definitely dont regret asking why she didnt call me.
Go up and say hey but dont hang around. If they really want to come talk to you they will make the effort
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