What do I need to do?

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I would suggest that you start by kissing him because you are clearly gay.

Thanks for understanding, Rad.No, I am not gay in any way; I am also not Bi-sexual. I am a little curious though, but the thought of kissing a guy or having anal sex kinda weirds me out. Not that those things are wrong, but they're just not me.Odd how I'm grossed out by the thought of kissing a guy, yet turned on by the thought of blowin one. Kissing seems intimate and emotional, and I don't want that from a guy ever.I'm straight, and thats how ill always be.

I'm 23

Isn't 23 a little too old for these masturbation fantasies? Seems to be a little more than simple curiosity.

Maybe I am out of the age I should be to do that. But I never got the chance to do this as a teenager. I also think age is pointless; people are people.

I am very secure in myself and my sexuality, and I will stay safe and sane. Thank you for all of your advice and understanding.

LOL!! you should go for it; you never know until you try, or until you get punched in the face.

So if I could blow him... hmm... I would have to make sure that my girlfriend was perfectly fine with it; knowing her, she would want to watch. And if all of that was fine and good, I'd go for it.

But that would make for an awkward moment; "Hold that thought, I gotta call my girlfriend real quick."

You say "I am also not Bi-sexual. "If you want to suck a guys dick... then I have to say that the above statement is false.

well, I think a bi-sexual is someone who can have an emotional relationship with either sex, I cannot. But if I could get sexual pleasure from a friend whenever I wanted, or return the favor, then great!

This post may be a bit late, but I know exactly what you mean. I was talking with my girlfriend about our both having thoughts about being bi, and about the differences in girls and guys. She says (and I agree) that guys are more physical in their emotions for the same sex, while girls are generally emotionally linked to the same sex.Like you, I think it would be amazing to j/o (with, or actually doing it to) a guy, or give him a b/j, or receive, or possibly even kiss, but I could never see actually being in a "relationship" or having EMOTIONAL feelings for a guy... or even being "monogamous" in a same-sex "relationship" or "hook-up." It would just be a one-time or maybe multiple-times things, but not a "relationship."

WOW! I figured somebody had the same thoughts as I do, I agree with you completely. Why can't we be best friends, I wouldn't have this friggan problem. I would leave the kissing out though, no offense.