How do you tell love from lust?How do you know what your feelings are really love or you just think it is?Comfort, can it be mistaken as love?
Love, lust, comfort,
If you still want to be with the girl even if you could never have sex, it's love.There are lots of sorts of love, I think. People who have been married for some years are usually no longer 'in love' - and just as well, or no work would get done. But they often still have a deep affection for each other. You might call that comfort, but it's still a good thing.Perhaps even better is the love that does the right thing for the other person even when there is no emotional feeling to encourage it.
Ummm... wait a couple months?
Get to the point where the person starts pissing you off all the time with all their little neuroses and then ask yourself if the good outweighs the bad. If yes, then congrats, you're in love!
Yeah, I agree with Ineligible that there's nothing inherently wrong with being comfortable in a relationship. It's when you cross the line from comfortable to complacent that problems start to crop up.