Masturbation vs real sex

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i'm worried because when i jack off i usually stroke pretty fast and sometimes when i don't seem to cum i stroke maybe 180 times per minute. but the problem is that real sex is totally different and i can impossibly push in and pull out my penor 180 times per minute. what if real sex is totally lame now where i am used to stroking fast and hard? especially when i cum i keep stroking really fast because if i stop stroking then i also dont feel much when cumming but when you have real sex and you're cumming and then you're just in there and stop thrusting then i dont know if you really feel that much. are my concerns legitimate? how often is it possible to push in and pull out during sex when you cannot use your hand? i read the average of thrusts is 9 per minute. but that's not much at all. i do 9 strokes in a few seconds.

You should try to slow down. Real sex is different than your masturbating method so the experience will be very different, you may find it lame. Break your habit of hard and fast stroking. Keep it real.

But I thought real sex was more intense and you cum faster than when you jack off, could this be wrong? What if I can only cum when I jack off really fast?

That is Saya's point. Some people have trouble reaching orgasm when they go to real sex because they have become used to a different style in masturbation. It does seem to fix itself with time, though.

Id definetly recommend slowing down if you're having sex with someone... thats why sex is so fun because it feels good when you're doing it slowwwwwwwww and when you're pounding the shit out of someone :open\_mouth:

but don't women usually like it rather fast and not slow where you hardly move?

Not all the time. Not slow where you hardly move.. that would be boring!!

You mean simply slow like how slow? How many thrusts per minute?

its something you learn through experience.

But every woman is different then how do I know what she likes?

You'll know how she likes it by her reaction when you do it.

what kind of reaction?