We have been together near three wonderful years. Like any couple we have discrepancies and have had tough times, but all in all both of us love each other to bits and despite us splitting up for two months, we have gotten back together and are working well, bar one thing...Ever since we begun dating, she has steadily lost her friends (due to in some capacity, myself for not seeing her friends as much as she saw mine.) This problem rectified itself while we were apart, however since we've gotten together, she has lost them again - and she is desperately lonely, to the point where she does very little but sit at home unless she has work or we are seeing each other. She was very much the definition of a social butterfly, but it seems as though she cannot get into a position where she could make new friends, because she sees it as a weakness and as being pathetic (an admission that she's said to me as we've discussed the problem) and she cannot afford to pay for classes (we're both students.) I love this girl, but in order to make her happy she wants me to lose all of my close friends and focus entirely on her - which is her solution to the problem "so your solution is for me to change everything in my life so yours can stay the same" as opposed to me changing everything in my life so we're both just as unhappy and lonely as each other. How can I get her to meet new people? And make new friends? Good friends.. ones that won't abandon her because they just want to be single and meeting other boys? Am I wrong in wanting to keep my friends/wanting her to find new friends?I don't know what to do, I'm completely confused and she's completely depressed. Hope you all can help.
My girlfriend has noone bar me..
Welcome to A2A, definitelymaybe. I think you are right to keep your friends (within reason, of course - not so much you don't see her much).It is common for singles and couples to drift apart, because their lives are different and what they are looking for is different. It would be good if you and she worked together on this, seeing her friends together, and also together making new friends who are themselves couples.
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