Recently I had sex and 3 days later I got these pencil tip red spots around the rim of my penis and my pee burns I've been doing research but I don't think it's herpes
Pencil tip red spots around rim of penis
A burning pain with urination is a sign of some type of infection. It doesn't matter what the cause is; this requires an examination by a trained medical professional.
Most all diseases are fairly easily cured, or at least controlled, with proper medication, but they can also have some long term consequences that are not pleasant if left untreated.
I would suggest that you stop trying to diagnose this yourself and make an appointment with a doctor.