Hey!
So yeah, I'm 28 and still a virgin for all that matters, so no penetration sex whatsoever, only oral sex a hand full of times.
But now I'm in a new relationship for 3 years and everytime we try to have sex she complains of pain, really sharp pain and I back off. We end up having oral and "outer course" (basically rub on each other, don't know if that's what's called).
I tried changing condom brand and even condom type. We tried oral first to stimulate her vagina but the result is very similar.
She is no virgin and had never happened to her and my penis is of average size, if not a bit below average.
We are about to go see a doctor and seek help but I feel like I'm the problem since I'm the "new to the game".
What can it be??
Thanks in advance.