e.g. they asked you questions for hidden purposes
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Would you date someone who plays mind games with you?May i know why please?
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@Maxwell There's not enough information here to give an opinion, I think, Maxwell. Mind games are not good, but they can be wrongly inferred. A hidden purpose can be benign (e.g. to set up a nice surprise) as well as malign.
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like "do i look fat in this dress?"
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@Maxwell That is the classical difficult question, with many wrong answers (e.g. 'no more than usual'), but it's not necessarily a mind game. Would you believe that many women still ask that question quite innocently, without intending a trap?
Possible correct answers are:
'You never look fat in anything' (may not be believed, whether true or untrue)
'No, but it doesn't suit you' (if she does indeed look fat in it: you are lying but this is required)
'That dress looks great on you!' (not quite answering the question, but the misdirection will be gratefully accepted)I would not, based on that alone, consider it an indication of particular vicious scheming. Even if asked deliberately, it may be no more than the usual testing that women do of men.
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not all women, just some. some have direct approach, some are indirect. i like the 3rd answer. thank you for your time ! :D