Help, im really scared

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ok im 16 and ive recently decided to start streching my tight foreskin. ive read all about doing it and its working quite quickly. the only problem is i have now discoverd there is a part of my foreskin attached to the side of the head of my penis. it attaches at the left of the line. its got me realy worries, i dont want to have and operation or anything and i dont realy want to see or show a doctor. will it come apart naturally?

Hey bud, that is actually fairly common, called a skin bridge or an adhesion. Sometimes in stretching and working with it it will seperate on its own with a small amount of bleeding. Of course, that depends on the size of the adhesion...can you tell approximately how big it is? In some cases a doc may need to snip it in his office but lets not focus on that just yet. Let us know what size it is and we'll see what suggestions we may have. Main thing is not to worry, again, these are fairly common an no big deal to worry about.

ok its about 5 mill across and it starts on the left of the line across the head. i think the line across the head is slighly smaller on that side because of it. i cant pull my foreskin back enough yet to see how far it goes down. its never caused pain or anything. until i started streching i never knew it was there.

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Don't expect it to detach by itself - I'm afraid you'll have to screw up the courage to have it done properly by a doctor.

Could he tear it himself if he has the guts to do it that way?

I had one that sounds about the same size as mine, and with a little tug it came free. It was VERY slightly sore/painful, but no bleeding.

Try extra manipulation of the foreskin. Try rolling your penis between the palms of your hand and pulling on the forskin away from the body. It should detach eventually.

I had one that sounds about the same size as mine, and with a >>little tug it came free.>>It was VERY slightly sore/painful, but no bleeding.Really? Mine was an acident and it bled alot. I called my mom when she was at the library lol.

I think the best thing to do is just to do a little everyday and relax the skin as much as possible. Perhaps soaking it in warm water before stretching may help. Dont force it, these things will occur, just takes time!!!

thanks for the imput guys. ive been streching my foreskin and it seems to be responding very quickly as im noticing more movement everyday. hopefully as you say i cant work it out during the streching. its not as big as i first thought. its just sortout reacing across the head of my penis so it looks real big. im not too worried about any soreness it may cause since i had to put up with that when i first started streching. its the bleeding that gets me, if there was an open wound that close to the pee hole wouldnt it get infected?

No, it shouldn't get infected any more than any other wound. Urine is usually sterile.

ok well how will it heal? will it scab over? The streching has been going well and i think i would be able to retract over the head while limp if it wasnt for the skin bridge. When i try to retract further the foreskin begins to roll up on itself. Ive got a better look at it and it seems to be very small. However the points at which it connect are not aligned so it streches across and looks bigger. it would be impossible to cut it since there is no way of getting underneath it. Could it be possible my foreskin has not yet finished separating from the head of my penis like it is meant to at the start of puberty?

It should heal fine, but really it would be much better if a doctor looked at it.I should also point out that there is one place where the foreskin is supposed to be attached to the head, and that's by means of the frenulum, on the underside. (Just to make sure it's not that that you're looking at.)

no, i cant pull the foreskin down far enougth to see that yet. this connects right next to my pee hole. If I continue the streching exercises would be be aiming to strech the skin bridge? since i cant realy strech my foreksin much till i can pull it further down. It would be awkward for a doctor to be able to get a proper look at ot because of the fact it resticts the foreskin and that my foreskin is tight. Im afraid he might just say the c word (circumcision) which i realy realy dont want. I dont always like the feel of the small part of my head being exposed, i couldnt live with it permanently exposed.

Is this skin bridge actually your frenulum???? I'm beginning to wonder about that. The frenulum is a tiny piece of skin on the underside of your penis that attaches just below the opening of your penis just on the head. If that's what you're talking about you need to let us know..it isn't a skin bridge and is supposed to be there.

im not sure. This attaches sort of to the side of the opening. Its hard to say because im sort of wonky. Doesnt the frenulum attach to the under side of the head on the knida ridge thing.

When i dry to withdraw this sort of pull the head over and down wards. What does the frenulum look like?

EDIT: ok ive seen some pics and its possible its the frenulum, if it is how do i strech it? will it ever become long enough to allow full retraction?

As you stretch your foreskin some and begin to move it over the head and onto the shaft of your penis, the frenulum will loosen over time and allow that to happen easier. It may not really stretch, but it won't seem as tight. Just keep working with it...as you're able...retract your foreskin farther and farther onto the shaft of your penis while you masturbate.

The frenulum should attach to the underside of the head, not the side. There is a condition called "frenulum breve" where the frenulum is too short to allow retraction. I think you'll need a professional to look at this - we can't really tell from just a description.

well either way i need to do more streching. i think it might be the frenulum. one question, what way is your urinary opening ment to point, is it ment to go across the head of your penis or down the head of your penis? cos this attaches at one end of the unrinary opening, but my opening is slanted so its difficult to tell. The opening seems to go down the penis but im not sure if its just the way im holding it.