Feeling really awful about myself...

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i like little boobs don't worry about it... im sure yours are nice

In reply to: Alright, this is really imbarassing and all....yeah. you know how it goes...Anyway, i'm 15 and in my opinion i'm not "developing" at the rate I should. I've always been a late bloomer and all, but lately it's really been depressing me. I hate shopping in the girls section for bras that "give you shape" and crap like that. I'm just sick of it. I do have a boyfriend. We've been going out for almost 4 monthes, and i've talked to him about how self concious I am on this subject and he assures me that he doesn't care but I really have a hard time beliving it. For awile I wouldn't even let him touch my chest at all just because I'm ashamed. I've pretty much planned on having breast implants when i'm older, and as soon as I can afford it because it bothers me that much. Sometimes people say stuff (you know how it is in highschool) and it really hurts but I ignore it and pretend I didn't hear and stuff, but then I go home and cry sometimes because I hate myself so much. And I'll shut up soon (if you even got this far without closing the page) Basically, what i'm trying to say is that I need either a way to make my breasts grow at a faster rate, or a way to make myself more comfortable with the body i've been cursed with. FYI: i'm 5'4" and 95 lbs. So...i'm thin, and I guess breasts are made of fat??? maybe thats why i'm not developing as I should? I don't know...just help! I would appreciate anyones advise. Even guys. I ont give a shit right now. look i am a guy and as i have said befor to someone else it does not matter how big your breasts are you are still beautifull in your own way and if your boyfreind does acually like you less just because of your chest size hes not worth waisting your time on, so just as a test open up a little and if he reacts anyway unpositively dump his ass if this helps you in any way plz send me a message or something.

Hello... i'm telling you my opinion... you only have 15 years... women develope from the 12 to the 19... you still have 4 years... maybe girls in school an other boys make fun or something... ignore them.. you have nothing bad.... there ae very attractive women that have small boobs... that doesn't really matter... all the huge boobed blondes wth a lot of sillicone under their skins.. are good for pics of calendar... not for reality.. what really count is how natural are you...

But if you still worry a lot when you have 19... you have the possibility of put an implants... beliveme... for women is more easy to solve those kind of problems... for us man.. ehem.. no..

well ill put it this way. ok im a guy and im 19. Boobs in no way affect how i look at a girl. the most important thing is there personality to me. if they have a great personality then it doesnt matter. i really dont look at boobs that way. basically if a guy is nto interested in u because of that hes just a prick neways n ur better off without him

I bet you you’re just the cutest thing at 5'4", slender and willowy. I’m sure your breasts are fine, don’t worry.

In reply to:   In reply to:    Do you drink soda? If not, you should. Soda is actually surprisingly healthy for you. In the morning, it can give you a burst of energy letting you do better in school and it can also balance the acid level in your stomach (which can negate a stomach ache if you have problems with breakfast) because it is a base.WHAT ?!?!? I'm sorry man, but you are so wrong. Most sodas, like Coke are JUNK and are no good for your body. Sure it'll give you an energy boost, but then you come down off that boost hard and get sleepy. And soda is certainly not a base, it is VERY acidic. Not to mention the caffeine addiction...    I agree with the second comment.  Advising someone to drink soda as a healthy drink is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever heard.  There is absolutely nothing healthy about soda. Not to mention all the sugar it has, plus as was mentioned the caffeine and it has zero nutritional value.  

im 15 this yr. and im underweight too. im 158cm and only 35 kg. and my nipples dun seem to be developing and neither is my breast. its flat. and embarassing. my period hasnt started either. i dunno what to do. im worried i might have smth wrong. is there anyway u can help me.?

Listen, littleme - when it comes to being with you, most guys don't actually care if you are small especially if you take care of yourself and are pretty (which all women are, really, sometimes it just takes care to bring it out). All most guys care about is 1. nipples and 2. accessibility. Read this article for instance: http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/dating6b.html. Look, bigger breasts get more attention, won't lie to you about that, and that puts the challenge on us smaller women to work on our own particular allure. that could be many things - hair, face, legs, butt, smile, attitude, personality. Work on maximizing what you have (and I suspect its a lot) than on focusing on what you have less of. Don't mutilate your body with surgery! When it comes to touching you, guys seem to prefer something natural no matter how small it is, to fake unnatural feeling breasts. Seriously, most guys are smarter than we give them credit for. And the ones who simply must have women with larger breasts or a certain breast size... well they are just a complete waste of time. Why try to please someone who is unpleasable? A real man will love you if you love yourself.

im 13 and i have a pretty good chest for my age.....but i always get self consilous and stuff...EVERYONE does....but wen i do i think about this.....im 13 i have PLENTLY of time to grow and if dats all dat mattetrs to a guy f*** him. and u should think about it da same way cuz ur 15 and u have PLENTY of time to grow.

i would not worry about. If you have breasts you are gonna get stares just because that is something that us guys do. I try not to, but i take a glimpse, but just because you are not stacked that does not mean that you should feel bad. There are plenty of guys who like smaller chests. Just go along with what is given to ya, and be smart.