Ok I've heard that you become a "non-vrigin" when you are penetrated with a penis or you do the penetration.Then on the other hand I heard that you become a "non-vigrin" when your cherry is popped....but some girls cherries pop from puttin in a tampon and some never pop. So question is....WHICH IS IT?!?!?
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Which is it?!?!
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When you are penetrated by a penis.
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The "cherry" that's being referred to is really the girl's hymen, a small piece of flesh that nearly/essentially seals her vagina closed. Many things (other than sex) can cause a girl's hymen to open/tear, but since a girl's first intercourse ALWAYS would cause this (if it hadn't already been done), the term "popping her cherry" is associated with and considered equivalent to a girl's loss of vaginity. Technically, if the hymen has already been ruptured you aren't "popping" anything, but it's still a common figure of speech.