Who has it harder

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i thought the topic was who has it harder males or females not anything about races .of course certain races have it harder then other.i won't disagree there

bulls hit women can do things and don't need to depend on a man for things how does that make them .it would be a bitch but if they sat there and took a mans crap all the time shit is called a good girl so how do can one win?

Fascinating question... without an answer. At this particular moment in time (yes it is important to place yourself in time) men and women (or boys and girls) are both deeply challenged. That is because gender roles are changing very rapidly and unfortunately not on a parallel path. Women have made incredible changes in the last 50 years, from being essentially chattel to emerging as powerful individuals with all option open to them. This progress has been incredibly rapid but also very difficult and has not only left truly deep wounds but has raised the bar of expectations so much that young girls grown up both overwhelmed with what they are supposed to be and (see below) disappointed by their expectations of what they will find in men.
The other side of the coin is that men have not emerged into their "new" gender role with anywhere near the speed of women. Most guys are still stuck in the old dictates of "strong, silent, competent, I have got to know everything mode". None of which is really feasible...just check out the posting here. But before you all start trashing the boys for being backward jerks please consider that this is not their individual fault. The problem is that to get to where they really need to go requires a level of emotional intelligence and that is battered out of boys at an early age. We are unfortunately in for a few generations of serious gender misalingment.